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Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 7th 2012, 12:35 AM

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Now...Really? She seriously thinks that gaining that much weight won't hurt her? She says she wants to break the stigma that fat is bad, but she does it by trying to become the most morbidly obese woman in the world? I don't understand how her boyfriend can just let her do this to herself. They should know she's putting her life at risk, but nooo, he just keeps cooking her more and more food. I am seriously at a loss for words here, I have no idea what to say about this other than this woman has no brain, and neither does her boyfriend for that matter, because he's the one helping her do this.


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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 7th 2012, 12:47 AM

Seriously? There are so many causes out there that should be brought to the public's attention, but this isn't one of them. As you said, there are many health risks. Why not bring attention to those instead? No one is going to read that article & say "what a brave woman to gain weight for her wedding". Most people are going to think "is she crazy?"



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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 7th 2012, 01:02 AM

Wow. There are better ways of breaking the fat hate thing, other than getting humongous. - I'm pretty sure that her boyfriend keeps feeding her because 1) he's an FA, and 2) he's probably afraid that she'll leave because if he doesn't agree with her on the weight thing she'll go find all her other fans who do want this.

I think that she's stupid to think that being that fat will do nothing for her, because there are a lot of health risks, especially for diabetes and high blood pressure... I seriously don't get why anyone would want to eat themselves immobile, I mean... I seriously have no more words to describe this at all.


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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 7th 2012, 02:29 AM

Millions of women struggle with their weight. For some of them, it's a true problem of obesity or similar issues. For others, it's an eating disorder or distorted body image. Someone who tries to put themself at a healthy weight and/or doesn't actively try to gain a clearly unhealthy weight level should have no shame in how she looks. But this woman really should be ashamed. It's appalling to do something so obviously dangerous, reckless and debilitating.


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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 7th 2012, 02:58 AM

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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 7th 2012, 05:57 AM

People make the choices they are going to make, even if they are ones that will surely kill them. This woman obviously believes she can successfully gain Edited. She believes that food is a huge part of her relationship with her fiance, and she may have an eating disorder.

But she's happy with her life, and as crazy as everyone knows she is, that's what matters most to her and her fiance.

In a weird, grotesque way, it's nice to see someone heavy talking positively about their weight. I get tired of every woman who isn't a stick talking about how fat and unattractive they are. Seriously, people, don't buy into the beauty myth. Obviously this woman is distorted, but as a general idea, it's nice.


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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 7th 2012, 06:22 AM

I bet she won't even make it to her wedding day with her life-style, I can't even believe this it's discussing.


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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 10th 2012, 04:54 AM

I hate to say it, but I hope she doesn't make it to her wedding.

Also, why the hell would you marry someone who's life goal is to-

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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 10th 2012, 09:22 AM

Everyone has aspirations...
So, maybe hers are a little unorthodox.
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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 10th 2012, 09:36 AM

Why judge someone on there lifestyle choice? If she wants to do this, then let her.
   
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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 10th 2012, 10:03 AM

lol... how the fuck can someone possibly argue that being clinically overweight or obese carries no health risks.


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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 10th 2012, 12:16 PM

I can't even read this, it disgusts me. She's not getting rid of the stigma surrounding 'being fat', she's being stupid and promoting unhealthy obesity.


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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 10th 2012, 12:55 PM

Well, it's a change to the brides to be who try and lose weight to fit into their wedding dresses. I can understand that she is trying to make people see that fat isn't bad but I think being morbidly obese and putting your life in danger cause of your weight is bad and the fact that her husband to be and sister are pretty much supporting her is so stupid.
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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 10th 2012, 02:59 PM

I bet it wouldn't be nearly as big of a deal if she was trying to become the skinniest bride. Then it would be defined as an eating disorder and everyone would feel sorry for her. But because it's the opposite, she's automatically insane. I'm not saying it's normal to want to be the fattest bride in the world, it definitely isn't, but in a weird kind of way at least she isn't ashamed of her weight, and at least she has found someone who loves her regardless of her clothing size. Weight is not the most important thing in the world, and it's not fair that it's totally normal to want to be skinny, but completely insane to want to be overweight. That kind of irritates me.





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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 10th 2012, 03:24 PM

That is one nice Funeral dress. I guess being buried in a coffin during Summer with sleeves and in black would get pretty hot... good thing she swapped it for sleeveless & white.
I don't hope she get overly excited on the, she might just have a heart attack!
   
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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 10th 2012, 09:14 PM

I swear to god, if my tax dollars to any of her obesity related illnesses, I'll kill her and bury her myself.


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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 10th 2012, 09:34 PM

well, that's really motivated me to get to the gym.


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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 11th 2012, 10:13 PM

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Why Arizona. First the Harms Race with Florida for who can come up with weirder more racist laws, now this. Why must we all look like hicks!?



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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 12th 2012, 03:05 AM

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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 12th 2012, 03:58 AM

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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 12th 2012, 06:53 AM

While her intentions are good and unusual to say the least, I'm struggling to understand how she has convinced herself there are no medical risks. Part of this seems to be a personal goal because she's dead set on literally weighing 3/4 of a tonne and fitting into a XXXXXXXXXXL sized dress. She's heavy and large enough as it is to make her point.


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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 12th 2012, 06:26 PM

Oh dear Lord... Help this woman.

I'm not saying being overweight is bad, it's just that making a point to be morbidly obese is overstepping the bounds of sanity a bit. The poor woman will suffer health problems all the rest of her life. And fat, not bad? In small amounts, it isn't that bad; as long as you can still lead a good life, and aren't in danger of illness. But being morbidly obese is bad, regardless of what this woman thinks. She's mad.

This is where record-breaking encouragement needs to stop. Record-breaking is all fine and dandy, until it endangers the health of the participant(s). There shouldn't be awards for being unhealthy.


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Re: Arizona woman attempts to become the world's fattest bride. - June 13th 2012, 03:17 PM

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She'l be so fat by then that you probably won't have to bury her... she'l just sink and drown in the ground herself. Could probably drown in set concrete.


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