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Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 08:29 PM

A MUM whose son has Down's Syndrome is appealing for a woman to have sex with him for the first time.

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage...cle2323752.ece


I thought that was quite awful and uncomfortable to read. What a way to ruin your sons self esteem aswell.


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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 09:20 PM

That is a little odd. I think that if he wants to have sex, than he should do it without involving his mother to this extent.


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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 09:28 PM

Poor Guy mom is willing to sell sons Virginity.


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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 09:37 PM

Oh my... that's... wow.
His mom makes my skin crawl.
"I always encourage him to go to nightclubs and other places where people pick up women."
"If he doesn't get a girlfriend, I will feel really bad, because I have sold him this thing that he is like everybody else"

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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 09:40 PM

That's just cruel on the mothers part. I can't believe she's so clinical about it.


   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 09:59 PM

Uh... umm.. ehh.. no. Just no.
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 10:27 PM

How exactly is the mother being cruel?

Poor guy but I can completely understand the mothers actions.
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 10:34 PM

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Poor Guy mom is willing to sell sons Virginity.
Not exactly. He said in the article that he wanted to have sex, he just hadn't been very successful in picking up women. So his mum is helping him.
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 10:45 PM

I think it's so wrong, though! His mother is basically teaching him to exploit women!
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 10:47 PM

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I think it's so wrong, though! His mother is basically teaching him to exploit women!
Honestly, he seemed to be quite capable of "exploiting" women for himself.

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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 10:47 PM

In what manner? Wanting to have sex is exploiting women? Offering to pay is exploiting women? If anything, by making him pay, women are exploiting him.

His mother is teaching him that he can get what he wants regardless of how he was born. I think that's a worthy notion.
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 10:50 PM

He's trying to meet women just to have sex. That's wrong. And his mother is encouraging it.
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 10:52 PM

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If he makes his intentions clear (he already has) and the women concerned are also only looking for sex, what is so wrong?
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 10:54 PM

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If he makes his intentions clear (he already has) and the women concerned are also only looking for sex, what is so wrong?
His mother is encouraging it. I just find it so... wrong.

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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 10:54 PM

Goodness ... that's just embarrassing for everybody ....




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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 10:56 PM

Well, if that's how they want to go about it. Kind of... strange that his mom is helping him to have sex. But I think that once he does, this might be an ongoing thing. He's not just going to have sex once and stop for good. He's going to keep asking mommy to buy him a new girl.


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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 11:00 PM

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His mother is encouraging it. I just find it so... wrong.

Just my opinion.
So she shouldn't help her disabled son to lead a normal and fulfilling life?

   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 11:02 PM

I never knew Brothels were considered normal.
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 11:05 PM

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Clearly you've never been to Amsterdam.



Although she did say that she wouldn't send him to a brothel as it wasn't what he wanted.
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 20th 2009, 11:08 PM

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Clearly you've never been to Amsterdam.



Although she did say that she wouldn't send him to a brothel as it wasn't what he wanted.
Clearly.
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 21st 2009, 02:33 AM

Sex can be a wonderful thing. Also, people will do crazier things for sex. Good for him for trying to lead a fulfilling life, seriously. And it seems he is pretty damn honest about his intentions--who could claim being used by someone who tells you their intentions?



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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 21st 2009, 03:04 AM

Haha, i just realized something. It looks in the photograph as though the guy is looking at a hot girl. He also has a face somewhat like a chubby and unshaven version of the actor who played Peter Parker in Spiderman.

As for the topic, what is wrong with it? The man wants sex, the mother is helping him, the women would be willing because the mother isn't encouraging rape, so it seems fine to me. Granted, it would be a little unusual finding a girlfriend with your mother behind your back walking with you. Hopefully though, the mother doesn't have to hand him the condoms, instruct him, etc... .
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 21st 2009, 04:39 AM

I wouldn't want my mom to try to help me get laid. Creepy.

Otherwise, more power to them. It's really sad that people with disabilities like Downs miss out on that stuff so much of the time. Imagine being in that position. You know that you want to have sex. You know that you're interested in a relationship, but honestly what are the chances of having those desires fulfilled? With a learning disability you're probably not the most fun person to talk to for your average girl. A lot of times people with learning disabilities mature much more slowly than the rest of us. Even if you are very intelligent in a lot of ways you probably have a very tough time expressing yourself. And what about the physical aspect? Most of us can recognize somebody with Downs Syndrome. Most girl wouldn't honestly find the "look" attractive. People normally develop romantic relationships when they're physically attracted to one another AND are stimulated by the other persons personality. People with that condition have huge barriers in both of those areas to overcome.

I don't know, I didn't mean for that to sound insensitive in any way. I feel nothing but empathy for him though. I know that when I go a month without having SOME kind of a romantic connection with a girl I go nuts. Imagine how bad it must be for him.


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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 21st 2009, 12:28 PM

I think that what she's doing is good. She's adopted four kids with down syndrome for a start, and she just wants them to have the best life they can. And like most 21-year old guys, he wants to have sex. So she's helping him, because he may not find dating as easy as someone without down syndrome. I don't see what all the fuss is about, it's not like she's forcing him, she's just supporting him in something he wants to do, and something healthy and natural at that.


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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 21st 2009, 01:17 PM

If anyone is interested, he's in the first half hour (followed by half an hour on asexuality, on two people I know) of a documentry called 'Natalie Cassidy's Real Britain' on iplayer (The BBC show player on there site... I think it's up till Thursday?).

Although Olly explicitly said he wants sex... I don't think it's quite in the way that most people do, I think it's largely an issue of wanting to be loved by someone, and I guess maybe he feels he must have that to be normal. I don't think he'd geniunely be happy with just sex.

The mother bothers me, because she's basically telling her son that he can't be normal unless he gets laid. One of the things she said in the documentry was something along the lines of: 'I dont want my son to be one of those men who still lives at home in his mid-20s, and a virgin'...

I think he stands a much better chance at pulling by going to like social clubs (not bar clubs), or if he can, maybe getting a job or something. But nightclubs really aren't working for him, and I do think he'd be dissatisfyed with a one night stand.
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 21st 2009, 01:50 PM

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If anyone is interested, he's in the first half hour (followed by half an hour on asexuality, on two people I know) of a documentry called 'Natalie Cassidy's Real Britain' on iplayer (The BBC show player on there site... I think it's up till Thursday?).

Although Olly explicitly said he wants sex... I don't think it's quite in the way that most people do, I think it's largely an issue of wanting to be loved by someone, and I guess maybe he feels he must have that to be normal. I don't think he'd geniunely be happy with just sex.

The mother bothers me, because she's basically telling her son that he can't be normal unless he gets laid. One of the things she said in the documentry was something along the lines of: 'I dont want my son to be one of those men who still lives at home in his mid-20s, and a virgin'...

I think he stands a much better chance at pulling by going to like social clubs (not bar clubs), or if he can, maybe getting a job or something. But nightclubs really aren't working for him, and I do think he'd be dissatisfyed with a one night stand.
Yeah i saw that programme. I found the second half more interesting than the bit about Otto actually, but it was a good programme. I also saw him on This Morning with his mum, and i couldn't help but feel sorry for him, because they made him look like some charity case who's desperate for sex but won't ever get it, with his mum pretty much saying that he can't find a partner for himself.


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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 22nd 2009, 12:01 AM

Yes, because that's not embarrassing at all for anyone. I didn't read the article because for some reason my virus scan program said it was an attack site, but if all it is some guy wanting to have sex, why is this in the news? Is that not embarrassing for them at alll?


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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 22nd 2009, 12:21 AM

Well the article to the sun has paid for her son to loose his virginity 5 times over and more. How desperate going to the sun to get rid of your son's virginity.
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 22nd 2009, 02:29 AM

The Sun article follows a BBC Three documentry. Otto's story isnt the only one that gone onto the pressure, just the asexuals were in the independant... becuse only the sun would use that story
   
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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 22nd 2009, 09:42 AM

Wow. That's all I have to say! And this woman wants her children to be normal? Well I don't really see selling your sons virginity as normal, but hey, everyones different...


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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 23rd 2009, 01:23 PM

So what happens when he loses his virginity and comes back to his mom and wants to have sex again, and again, and again, and again? Is she going to just keep buying him girls or what? Am I the only one that thinks that once he has sex, he's not just going to want to stop?


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Re: Mum appealing for women to have sex with her son - March 23rd 2009, 02:55 PM

Creepy....

There are other ways of getting a girlfriend, and if he thinks that girlfriends are just for sex, he's very misguided. And his mother is... well.... yeah.


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