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Jumping before I'm pushed - April 9th 2009, 09:40 PM

I joined here about ago looking for help in a problem and got it I suppose. However over time I hardly touched the support forums and mainly spent my time in the Current Events and Religion forums and the chat room.

The main reasoning for this is my complete dislike of teenagers and their overdramatic nature as well as sycophancy. At least in the Current Events and Religion forums there was a sense of maturity and there were actually some good debates.

This has decreased over time with an influx of new users and less mature users. Plus things have been debated to death.

I stayed for awhile longer due to my role as buddy and schools and careers mod but I got more disillusioned and noticed the rise of sycophants which probably coincided with my removal (that was number 2, number 1 was because the admins wanted to keep chat mods as a secondary position). But I seemed to have been disliked generally by the userbase and the administrators with my honest nature, blunt advice and pessimistic outlook, someone they don't want on staff. As well as my condensing and cynical outlook on 90% of teenagers, I can understand why I'd not be welcomed on a site that is geared towards over-dramatic teenagers. Unfortunately this has also diffused into that chat lobby now where my attempts to keep it light hearted fall on deaf ears now. Then again text is nothing without the power to back it up...

I know a good amount of people here whom I've enjoyed talking with other the years: Vessol (who I got the bulk of this post from: Click me), Jess, Ellie, Amanda, Jack, Sarah, Matt and many more. I've stayed away from the drama of what seems to be the politicks of this site and the 'cliques' that abound. Those of you who have my msn can continue talking to me there those who do not ask someone who does who will ask me in turn (hopefully)

I'll still periodically check on the meet thread and be involved in that too and I'll be here for the rest of tonight
   
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 9th 2009, 09:46 PM

Lee take care Friend. Hope I see you around.


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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 9th 2009, 09:48 PM

lee,
sad to see you leave. But I do have your msn so we will chat there. Let me know if you need anything. Take care of yourself though, buddy. okay??
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 9th 2009, 09:57 PM

Aww!

Your posts often made me smile.

Good luck!
   
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 9th 2009, 10:09 PM

I think we all feel unwanted sometimes, sure there may be some people out there that haven't warmed up to you, but the same goes for anyone. With minds like ours the problems always seem out of proportion when we're thinking about them to ourselves.

If your sure on leaving, good luck and you'll be missed. I may see you again at the meet = ]
   
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 9th 2009, 10:16 PM

Take care, it's going to be weird, not seeing you around, x


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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 9th 2009, 10:20 PM

Oh no =[

Who's going to help me out with my computer troubles now? Lol you always did give good advice when I posted for help in the technology forums.


   
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 9th 2009, 10:39 PM

I'm sorry to see you're leaving Lee, and I'm not just saying that.
I've hardly spoken to you at all in my time here at TH, but I've read a lot of your posts and seen you in chat etc. and what can I say? You're a TH celebrity!
Your comments have always made me smile, even with your 'blunt advice and pessimistic output' as you put it.
I hope you have a good life, and I do mean it.


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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 9th 2009, 11:45 PM

Lee.... sorry that you had to leave.... it's nice to know you in chat and I think you are one of those less dramatic people :P I hope I can still see you around...
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 9th 2009, 11:59 PM

Aww Lee I'm sorry to see you'll be leaving us.
But hey you're right, we're not teens forever and that's where this site is aimed towards. But I hope you can always pop in once and awhile. We would love to be graced with your prescence hehe.
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 10th 2009, 12:28 AM

Oh Lee, I'll miss you. I always looked forward to reading your posts. Blunt and pessimistic as they may have been, they always seemed like wholesome contributions (as well as consistently being correctly spelled and structured *thumbsup and I can honestly say that you've become one of those posters whose opinions I always respected. Oh, and I want to reassure you that these remarks were in no way sycophantic.
Feel free to come back any time... even if it's just to reassure me that you're as cynical and pessimistic as ever. Take care otherwise.
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 10th 2009, 01:30 AM

You already know I'm going to miss you ):
Get ready for me to bug you like Hell on MSN, though.
You shall always be my best TH buddy, and I'm sure as heck going to miss our amazing VM conversations and your amusing posts! xD I agree that there is lots of evil teenage drama out there, and I'm sorry that it seemed to make the site not to great for you

We'll all miss you lots, guaranteed. *Many hugs*

And by the way, this is one of the few posts in A&D that is completely honest, because I really mean it

Everybody wave goodbye to the cookie, to! I'll miss that guy





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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 10th 2009, 01:38 AM

Good luck.. I saw ya post this in the chat room..

I hope all goes well..
   
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 10th 2009, 02:43 AM

Lee i am sad to see you going, you were one of the first people i really remember from when i first joined. I actually think you were one of the first to welcome me in chat.

I will miss seeing you around, and some of the jokes that have been made. Hopefully all will go well for you in life. And sadly i don't have you on MSN, maybe that should be changed sometime.

Take care of yourself <3 <3
   
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 10th 2009, 03:07 AM

I'm sad to see you leave, Lee.
If you ever need us, remember where we are.


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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 10th 2009, 05:15 AM

I know we didn't talk much, and we sometimes got on the opposite sides of debates, but I honestly think your presence was a good one in Current Events and Religion, Science &c. You came across as pretty level-headed, if always on the negative side. I'll miss having you around in there. I want you to know that I thought you brought an important balance and sense of realism to the forums. I hope you find somewhere to land where you feel more appreciated.


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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 10th 2009, 11:03 AM

I'll be sad to see you go, honestly. It won't be the same not seeing you around!
Take care
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 10th 2009, 11:59 AM

You suck, dude! I've always liked you.


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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 10th 2009, 12:04 PM

Take care Lee
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 10th 2009, 01:01 PM

Going to miss you... I'll contact you if I ever figure out MSN.


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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 10th 2009, 07:38 PM

You know I'm going to miss you Lee, there'll be no one else to torture me with math . I'll hunt your msn down from someone else.<3


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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 11th 2009, 09:57 AM

How I missed this... well I'm unsure of.
I've taken a back seat with my msn and my phone, but when I get back to liking them again, I'll hit you up for a chat.
I might even make it to two meets, and we can have screw drivers till we fall over.
Take care, and remember, dude, I'm totally in new york right now. Where are you waking up?


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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 11th 2009, 10:25 AM

Lee!
I'm sorry to hear your leaving, but if you feel its for the best.

I'm really going to miss you. I do enjoy our chats, but I shall still msn/text you

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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 13th 2009, 12:43 AM

Thanks to everyone who posted here, especially those who meant it. Maybe I will hang around, I dunno yet

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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 13th 2009, 04:24 AM

If you decide to leave, Lee, take care.
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 13th 2009, 07:42 PM

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It will be so different not seeing you in the lobby anymore. Who is going to bore me with esoteric math equations? Take care and best wishes.

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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 13th 2009, 08:17 PM

I'm sorry to see you go if you do, Lee. Take care of yourself!


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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 13th 2009, 08:24 PM

aww bye
tc im not sure if i have your msn :S
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 14th 2009, 03:54 PM

Hopefully I don't fall into that annoying teenager category...

I enjoyed reading your posts, and you liked a lot of music I liked. =/ cheers
   
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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 14th 2009, 04:09 PM

gah please don't leave. what will become of my life if i don't have your fantastically sarcastic posts to read?

but yeah seriously, you will be missed if you do leave.


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Re: Jumping before I'm pushed - April 14th 2009, 04:15 PM

not that i've spoken to you much, but i for one personally enjoyed you're chat in the chat room for the fact that it was well not the average...take care eventually we all have to move up and into the real world lol
   
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