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Taking A Break - February 9th 2013, 03:58 PM

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I don't know how long this break will be. I wasn't ever helpful anyway, that's just something I can add to my lists of failures.

I'm too angry to explain things right now. I feel the need to go conceal myself after I was just made to look like an idiot on here.

I want to come back, but I need time to think.

Sorry for wasting everyone's time.


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Re: Taking A Break - February 9th 2013, 06:00 PM

Yeah, see. No one cares. I'm completely unwanted here. Whatever.


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Re: Taking A Break - February 9th 2013, 06:11 PM

I care i want u on here PM me if you want to talk


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Re: Taking A Break - February 9th 2013, 06:11 PM

It's not that you aren't cared about- because you are. You only typed this thread up two hours ago. My thread didn't get responses Til a day or two either. Don't give yourself value based on thread responses. You're worth it and people care. I'm sorry to see you go. We all need breaks. And sometimes it takes a break to really put things in perspective for us. So take your time. We will be here waiting with open arms for your return


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Re: Taking A Break - February 9th 2013, 06:35 PM

Hey there Cassie,

Well, I care, even though I don't think we've ever actually talked before, and I'm sure I'm not the only one. I've seen you reply to tons of threads (sorry for the alliteration ) and help a load of people, so you are wanted on here. We all need to rest sometimes so it's nothing to be ashamed of if you feel the need to take some time off, and I hope to see you back soon.
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Re: Taking A Break - February 9th 2013, 07:43 PM

Hey Cassie,

We haven't talked much before, but please know that I DO care about you. There are lots of people here who care about you. Sometimes we just need to look a little harder to see it.

I'm glad that you're taking a break when you need it, although I hope everything's okay. If you want to talk about anything, feel free to PM me anytime and I'll be happy to help. Take care of yourself, okay?

I hope to see you back soon!

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Re: Taking A Break - February 9th 2013, 07:54 PM

Hey there Cassie, I'm sorry if you've felt unwanted here or uncared for. I do care about you, even if we haven't really talked yet, I'd be happy to get to know you! Send me a message anytime!
   
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Re: Taking A Break - February 9th 2013, 08:00 PM

Cassie, I am so sorry you are going through a hard time. I can promise you that just because you do not think your helpful here doesn't mean that you aren't. People care, and sometimes it just takes longer for some to show that they care about someone. We all care about you.

You did not waste anyone's time, you are not an idiot in any way.

I hope you do decide to come back, If its a user that is keeping you from being here and they did something wrong and hurt you, report them.

Take care of yourself, when you are ready to come back, we will all be here.
   
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Re: Taking A Break - February 9th 2013, 08:07 PM

I'm really sorry you feel like you don't help people, or that you're not cared about. Like Lynds said, most threads don't get responses until a day or two. You are tremendously important to all of us, and I'm very sorry you feel the way you do.
I hope that if you do take a break, you take care of yourself and you feel better. <3 PM me ANYTIME, love. <3
   
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Re: Taking A Break - February 9th 2013, 08:15 PM

Aww Cassie... Darling, you've helped me a lot and I've seen you reply and help so many others. You do help people, you do make a difference. That's amazing and I'm proud of you. City Lights is right, just because we haven't replied yet doesn't mean we don't care. I just woke up, came to Arrivals & Departures and clicked on yours first thing and read it first. You are important and cared for, hun. I just want you to know that I'll really miss seeing you around and talking to you but taking a break to think is definitely okay. You can E-Mail or message me on here if you need someone to talk to. I hope you feel better, sweetie. Take care <3

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