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Hello Everyone - April 26th 2009, 08:03 PM

Hello I'm Robert.

I'm a senior in high school and since about December I have been really sad and lonely a lot because in December the girl that I have liked the majority of high school, about two and half years doesn't like me. It was completely different from crushes I have had in the past, I couldn't get over this one. I would try but it would just make me really sad to try and ignore her. In January I freaked her out and I felt really bad, I felt more like no one understands or really cares about me and that I'm a horrible person for doing such a thing. It felt like I was living my life trying to get by on a day to day basis and that no girl would honestly ever want to be in a relationship with a nice guy like me. I just never felt happy and I was always so busy with school work I never had time too hang out and I didn't have much of anyone to hang out with anyways. In February I went to a christian youth retreat and it helped a lot, but I still get really sad and whenever I get a crush on a girl it just ends up hurting really bad. I see people having so much fun with each other and I think I'm incapable of being funny or showing compassion and that no girl could ever like me at all. I've lost what my idea of liking and love is. Recently I have found a couple of friends many past friends and many of them girls, but my friends are often never there to talk with most of the time I'm sad, and so I feel really lonely and that no one cares if I'm sad or not.
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Re: Hello Everyone - April 26th 2009, 08:25 PM

Aww Rob, i'm sorry to hear about how things have been going for you. Hopefully Teenhelp can help you out Please don't let this get you down. The fact you have felt such emotional for this girl shows you have compassion Please remember there will be lots of peeps out there in your position. You aren't alone and never will be. TH can help you hopefully, but why don't you talk to your family about this?

Anyway, welcome! My name's Nat and I'm a buddy 'round here. Check out the stickies in the Arrivals and Departures forum to help you learn the ropes here.

PM/VM me if you ever need a hand Rob

I really hope this clears up for you Rob

See you around here then?

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Re: Hello Everyone - April 26th 2009, 08:35 PM

Hello and welcome to the site!!!! I'm sorry to hear that it didn't work out with that girl, but I'm sure there will be many more in the future that will like you just as much as you like them. The bad things in life make the good things that much better. I hope to see you around and if you have any questions or just need to talk to someone please send me a message.

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Re: Hello Everyone - April 26th 2009, 09:11 PM

hey im naomi
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Re: Hello Everyone - April 26th 2009, 09:48 PM

Hey there Robert
Sorry things didn't work out with you and that girl, but you've come to the right place. This site is pretty awesome, I'm sure you'll meet a lot of great people.
If your ever feeling sad or lonely, don't hesitate to shoot me a message or something, I'm around a lot
take care

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Re: Hello Everyone - April 26th 2009, 10:17 PM

Thanks everyone for the warm welcome.
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