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No one to tell. - August 14th 2019, 02:03 AM

[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]I don't know what to do. I can't tell my parents or siblings. I almost had sex for the first time today. We wer'e on the couch watching a movie and he said do you want to kiss, we did. Then he said you want to do it and I was scared and said ok. He had a condom and got on top of me, we still had our outfits on and kissing and I got scared and pushed him off me and lied and said I forgot I have to meet my mom. He said okay and am I ok, I said yes. And he said I'll text you later don't worry about it everything is fine between us. I can't believe I'm a loser and did this. Just want to cry now.[/size][/color][/font]
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Re: No one to tell. - August 14th 2019, 10:20 PM

I don't see any issue with this. You simply weren't ready to have sex. There's nothing wrong with that.

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Re: No one to tell. - August 15th 2019, 04:55 PM

Hey there,

You are not a loser.

As the user above said, you didn't feel ready to have sex. And that's okay, there isn't anything wrong with that.

It is good that you didn't go through with having sex when you didn't really want to. Is it possible to talk to your boyfriend about what happened and how you didn't feel ready to have sex? Your boyfriend should be understanding and not pressure you into having sex when you don't feel ready. He should wait for you to say when you are ready to make sure that both of you are comfortable with having sex.

It's okay if you feel crying. But you didn't do anything wrong.

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