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using a dildo - April 29th 2012, 11:50 AM

when i use a dildo on my ass it really hurts-what can i do to stop it hurting? should i build up in the siZe of the dildo?
   
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Re: using a dildo - April 29th 2012, 01:05 PM

You can't really make the anus larger. The only thing you can do is practice, use lots of lube and take things slowly.











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Re: using a dildo - April 29th 2012, 09:02 PM

Lots and lots of lube and take it slowly, make sure you're relaxed. If there's blood stop immediately. Other than that, google is your friend. :]
   
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Re: using a dildo - April 30th 2012, 05:18 AM

What they said above can't be stressed enough!! Especially the relax thing.


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Re: using a dildo - May 2nd 2012, 05:26 AM

Like everyone said, lots of lube and take things slow.
And like Holly said, check google. There are lots of sites out there where things can be explained in much great detail.


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Re: using a dildo - May 2nd 2012, 06:19 AM

Well, I would not build up the size of the dildo. Rather, I would keep to this size, and even think about using a smaller one. Use lots of lubricant, and if you continue experiencing pain or experience bleeding, stop.


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Re: using a dildo - May 2nd 2012, 11:52 PM

Try using more lubrication. If it's still difficult, you may want to try with one a little smaller, and once that's manageable go back to the size you are using. Remember, go slowly. If you try to rush it it's not going to be pleasant. The sphincter is a muscle that generally isn't used to that kind of pressure, so it takes time to adjust.


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