Female Advice Preferred: how do i make her have a great time?

[dlm_2012]

hello
this is my very first post as i am a new member,
Well basically, im 17 and im a virgin, but my girlfriends 16 and isnt. We are getting to the stage where sex is just around the corner. She has told how amazing sex with her ex boyfriend was and how she loves it. She knows im a virgin and said she will do all the work, but how can i make it better than just standard? how can i make her feel satisfied and keep her coming back for more all the time? thanks for reading anybody that can help please do, Dave x

[SM13]

We aren't allowed to give tips and I'm not sure how much help this is coming from another virgin but in my experience with oral and stuff i think this could apply to sex as well. Its important to be confidant and try not ro worry about achieving orgasm. If she is in charge go along with it to see what she likes so that next time you maybe could take charge a little since you know what she likes. Also for many woman clitoral stimulation is a must to be able to orgasm. So say she is on top which she porob will be if she's showing you then you have good access to play around with her clit with your hand. Communication is key. If she tells you don't stop it doesn't mean do it harder it means she likes what you are doing so don't change it. I hope this helps. If I think of any more then I'll post again. Good luck! And don't forget just to have fun!

Best wishes
~SM~

PS: don't forget to use a condom!!

[dlm_2012]

thankyou, that has been a huge help and i shall definatly being using thsi idea. if you do gain any more ideas please post again thankyou for reading and for your reply, dave x

[Beautifuldreams13]

Since description stuff is so limited I would say research it. I was a virgin on everything but kissing before boyfriend now. After having done my research and everything I had pulled out a few tricks he hadn't seen before with things such as oral. I wanted to be better then anyone in his past and I have succeeded. The Internet is a wonderful tool.

The other thing is communication. I see you have already told her you aren't a virgin so keep communication lines open. It takes a while to learn what your partner like virgin or not. Give it time and ask what she likes. She will be trying to find out what you like as well.

Sex is a natural thing and honestly isn't too hard to figure out so just don't worry about it and just enjoy. Also don't expect to last more than ten minutes your first time. It's completely normal. The more you do it the longer you will last have fun!!

[dlm_2012]

wow this is really helpful tips. im abit nervous about being quick but i guess it normal and theres nothing i can do about it. thankyou for your advice its extremely useful and i shall be researching up on it dave x

[Coexist.]

Honestly, communication is the key, and right now is a good time to see what she likes. A large part of good intercourse is good foreplay, so make sure that is a good part. Also, see what kind of things she likes, and places she likes to be touched/kissed.

Other than that, we cannot really give "tips" but really, see what she likes, and make sure you communicate your own preferences and boundaries as well. Good luck! Use a condom!

[Acheron]

Originally Posted by Revolution

Honestly, communication is the key, and right now is a good time to see what she likes. A large part of good intercourse is good foreplay, so make sure that is a good part. Also, see what kind of things she likes, and places she likes to be touched/kissed.

It's standard advice, but I think the problem with it is that inexperienced people (like OP, and probably his girlfriend too) generally don't know what they like. And even when they do, they tend to be bad at expressing it.

So, for the thread starter, a tip. Don't feel like you have to handle her with kid gloves. It's a mistake a lot of guys make, but most girls like a bit of aggression in bed. You won't break her, promise. If she doesn't like it, she'll tell you, but no girl wants to be hesitantly pawed at.

[Brandon]

You start from the inside-out. Women need more mental stimulation than physical. Give her compliments, tell her how you feel, what you want to do with her, find out her sensitive areas (my girlfriend likes to be kissed just below the ear), and do anything else to know that you care about her. Her arousal is more important than actual penetration and whatnot, but it's important that you communicate. Even after being with my girlfriend for over a year (lots of sex and making love), I still go down on her and ask her "does this feel good?" etc etc. The first experience is not going to go as you expect...but that's why you keep an open mind and be willing to learn a thing or two.

[Houseman]

1) Be confident
2) Don't over-expect anything
3) Make sure to communicate
4) Foreplay

Just not in that order.

[gymnastxxLeah]

Hey! First of all, WELCOME!!(:

To answer your question, try not to be too nervous. Relax, and enjoy it!
If she knows what she likes, maybe try that?
Compliment her... Make her feel sexy and beautiful...
and foreplay. Lots of foreplay.

[canadadry]

kiss her stomach and go down on her, and ask her what she likes, dont be nervous and USE PROTECTION