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Question GF getting me all worked up - June 29th 2012, 03:19 AM

Well, me and my girlfriend share a account on here. Well she has been getting me worked up really bad lately. The past few nights, has been hard and crazy. She acts like she wants to have sex but then when i ask, she said idk or no. What is the deal?
   
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Re: GF getting me all worked up - June 29th 2012, 04:24 AM

If you share an account with her, it's safe to assume she'll see your post. . . So going with this assumption; Why don't you just talk to her more directly about it? Ask her what the problem is.
   
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Re: GF getting me all worked up - June 29th 2012, 06:33 AM

If this is a shared account, or even if your girlfriend is just on Teenhelp, she will be able to see this post. I would ask her what's going on. She's the only one who can answer you best since she knows what is going on; we can merely just throw out possible explanations. If you feel you can passively post this but not talk directly to your girlfriend, perhaps there is some communication the two of you can work on together.


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Re: GF getting me all worked up - June 29th 2012, 06:40 AM

I confirm with the others. Open communication, especially about something like this, is extremely important. It's not fair what she's doing; she's actually leading you on and that's not good and/or healthy for a relationship to go through. Ask her what the deal is, and see what her response is. Let her know that it upsets you that she leads you on only to be left in the dust with disappointment.











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Re: GF getting me all worked up - June 30th 2012, 12:58 AM

She won't answer me. She came home and said hi and everything and changed and that was the end of it. She took off to the pond and she never said what the deal was.
   
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Re: GF getting me all worked up - June 30th 2012, 03:35 AM

If she does not want to talk, my best suggestion is to give her some space, and then try again. As for sharing an account on here, I don't recommend it. Not much good ever comes from that. maybe you two should get separate accounts

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Re: GF getting me all worked up - June 30th 2012, 04:41 AM

I"m going to make a separate account now. I just didn't want to make her mad when she told me i could use her account.
   
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Re: GF getting me all worked up - June 30th 2012, 06:43 AM

Communicate with her. This thread could really end up more embarrassing than helpful, because it's bringing a personal issue out in the open without her permission and on her account. So next time, just talk to her more directly.

Next, I think you need to talk to her, but also understand her boundaries. I have the right to be flirty without my partner expecting that automatically means I want sex. Consent has to be given at every sexual encounter, so no matter how she "works you up," she has the right to say no afterwards. If her working you up with no action annoys you, ask her to stop, but she has no expectation to give you sex.


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