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Me and my step brother. A weird relationship - July 31st 2013, 10:39 PM

Me and my step brother, Cutler, are the same age. One day I didn't hear him come in and he saw me masturbating to some porn. About 2 days later he told me what had happened, and he told me that even before he saw me that he didn't think of me as an actual sister, and I told him that I felt the same way. I'm not going to go into details about our discussion because it isn't that important. Some where around 3 days later we were home alone and I was getting out of the shower. Since me and him feel the same way about each other we didn't care what the other one saw so walked around the house air drying. Then we both took a nap because we both decided to stay up late and go prank some neighbors. I was laying in my bed naked because I didn't feel like getting dressed. Not even 2 minutes later he came into my room and layed down in my bed with me. We layed there for a while then I whispered to him, "do you wanna do it?" He said yes then got undressed and then we started to have sex. He was careful to make sure to cum outside of my body as not to get me pregnant. Then during a time when he took it out I started rubbing myself and he fingered me to help and I orgasmed for him. I was wondering if this is weird in any way?
   
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Re: Me and my step brother. A weird relationship - August 1st 2013, 05:08 AM

Yes it's weird I would try to avoid any future relationship with him avoid as that will lead to messy conflicts in the family.


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Re: Me and my step brother. A weird relationship - August 1st 2013, 06:22 AM

It is not unusual at all for you two to have feelings for one another at your age, or to be curious about each other's bodies, or to develop crushes. What is unusual is for the two of you to act on these feelings. I and most people would agree that this is likely to get messy. You guys are in the same family for life. It would be kind of weird if you guys got really serious and actually dated and like got married, BUT, it would be a whole lot weirder if you just continued having sex until one of you felt something serious and the other one didn't, or one of your parents caught you, or one of you met someone soon that you would rather have a relationship with and that it would be more appropriate to have a relationship with. I think the BEST option is for you to sit down and have a talk with him about what happened. Just say it's nobody's fault but you feel like it shouldn't happen again because it's innapropriate. If he ever tries to pressure you into doing it again, or if you feel that this is a concern, tell a parent.
   
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Re: Me and my step brother. A weird relationship - August 1st 2013, 11:37 AM

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Me and my step brother, Cutler, are the same age. One day I didn't hear him come in and he saw me masturbating to some porn. About 2 days later he told me what had happened, and he told me that even before he saw me that he didn't think of me as an actual sister, and I told him that I felt the same way. I'm not going to go into details about our discussion because it isn't that important. Some where around 3 days later we were home alone and I was getting out of the shower. Since me and him feel the same way about each other we didn't care what the other one saw so walked around the house air drying. Then we both took a nap because we both decided to stay up late and go prank some neighbors. I was laying in my bed naked because I didn't feel like getting dressed. Not even 2 minutes later he came into my room and layed down in my bed with me. We layed there for a while then I whispered to him, "do you wanna do it?" He said yes then got undressed and then we started to have sex. He was careful to make sure to cum outside of my body as not to get me pregnant. Then during a time when he took it out I started rubbing myself and he fingered me to help and I orgasmed for him. I was wondering if this is weird in any way?
cos you live under the same roof its best to avoid being a 'couple' or you might breakup and it would be really tricky then to still live together. i have a stepbrother too that is 16 so i know they can be into us. its tricky in summer especially when we don't wear much. but try to get a boyfriend so at least your stepbrother knows your already taken! but i know how you feel. when my stepbrother/stepdad first moved in mum told me straight away not to wear the nightie i usually wear. i wore it anyway and problems happened. i know better now
   
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Re: Me and my step brother. A weird relationship - August 1st 2013, 07:15 PM

See, technically you guys are NOT blood related and if you guys became family later on (ex. at an age where you were able to make your own choices about whether or not this guy was really your brother vs. being step-siblings since the age of 4 or something). So unlike a "real" blood sibling it might be easier to get these feelings... But the fact of the matter IS that you guys are living in a family setting and even if the two of you have rationalized a way that you don't really think that your siblings i highly doubt your parents or most other people even outside of your family would be ok with this interpretation. You guys are being raised together as siblings and for most people it'll be a "and that's that" result. You're being raised in a family setting and it'd probably be best to try to adhere to that expectation, it's one thing if you guys are more friends than siblings, but sexual relations that's incestual (blood relation only) will never go through well, and it's still likely going to cause serious problems for step siblings. Even if your parents can accept it you'll still face repercussions if people talk where you live. I mean, I doubt you'd be the first step sibling who's had this problem I've even heard of people having problems cause they had feelings for someone (or were dating someone) and then their parents got together too. It's not unheard of, but I really think you need to think about family expectations before you do anything else




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Re: Me and my step brother. A weird relationship - August 1st 2013, 08:51 PM

Ok. Thanks
   
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Re: Me and my step brother. A weird relationship - August 4th 2013, 06:42 AM

What I would do if I were you is go to him and talk about it and both of you explain what y'all werd thinking at the time and why you did ( or didn't do) what you did.
   
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