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I think I am a pervert.. - July 31st 2014, 11:41 AM

I'm 21 year old male. I have always been sexually active i.e masturbating frequently (once in 2-3 days), being sexual with the girlfriends I have had every chance I get. I have a girlfriend who I regularly get sexual with but I don't think it is enough for me. I am very sexually attracted toward my other hot friends/girls I know/girls who were friends with me in the past. I use girls' pictures while masturbating. I look at them and fantasize about getting sexual with them. If I could have them, I would do anything to get sexual with them. There were different girls in the past whose pictures I used, now there are different girls. Currently, there are 4-5 girls whose pictures I use to masturbate. Sometime I use one girl's pictures, sometimes the other ones and so on. These girls have no idea that I do this. The pictures aren't naked pics or anything but simple normal FB pictures. Once or twice, I even used my girlfriend's sister's pictures for this. I felt bad afterwards though. But sometimes I'm really tempted to use her pictures. I don't use my girlfriend's pictures for this as I can get sexual with her when we meet so her pictures isn't really a turn on for me. I also prefer talking to these girls on the phone and hear their voice while I masturbate (obviously I can't tell them what I am doing). But everytime I masturbate, I look at their pictures while doing it. I find it better than porn. I sometimes watch porn in the start to get things started and then I move onto their pictures.

Is this normal or is something wrong with me? What do you guys think?
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Re: I think I am a pervert.. - July 31st 2014, 12:58 PM

I dont think anythings wrong with you mate, Im just guessing you have a high libido. I go up the mango tree few times a day for "relaxation purposes" and i have some really sick fantasies. I dont think im sick tbh. I just know they are just fantasies. Youre 21 years old, youre experimenting with pictures. Nothing to be worried about. Just dont moan some other name than your girlfriends while being sexual with her. :P
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Re: I think I am a pervert.. - July 31st 2014, 02:29 PM

There's nothing wrong with this, we each have our turn ons, and this is just what works for you. As long as it isn't hurting anyone then I don't see what's wrong with it. Just know that your girlfriend might be upset about this, so you should either be upfront about it or keep it very secret.

This doesn't make you a pervert, so don't let yourself think that way. This is a mild fetish and there are plenty of 'worse' things that still wouldn't make you a pervert.

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Re: I think I am a pervert.. - August 3rd 2014, 09:30 AM

I'm a female so I know not of the male labido, but as long as you aren't neglecting yourself or the other people in your life then do whatever you gotta do to be "happy".....
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Re: I think I am a pervert.. - August 3rd 2014, 04:31 PM

Don't let anyone tell you that something's wrong with you based on your sexual preferences or libido.
It is often taught that male sexuality is wrong. It's important for you not to suppress it unless it is harmful to others or straight out illegal (in that case, I'd suggest therapy).

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Re: I think I am a pervert.. - September 7th 2014, 04:27 AM

Being in a monogamous relationship doesn't mean you don't want to have sex with other girls, it means that you refrain from doing so. As long as you don't go around telling those girls that you masturbated to their pictures, I don't see anything wrong with it. And if you have fantasies about sleeping with other girls, masturbating to their pictures seems like a good way to blow off steam without cheating.
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