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Question busted by my brother - August 22nd 2014, 10:32 PM

this evening my brother came home earlier then expect and caught me at it with my fella, what's the best thing to do ? should i discuss it with him or just act like it never happened..?


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Re: busted by my brother - August 23rd 2014, 03:39 AM

If he doesn't seem mad or upset, I would just let it go. If he does seem bothered by it, then it would probably best to talk about it.
   
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Re: busted by my brother - August 23rd 2014, 03:45 AM

I agree with Barb. You don't have to talk to him about this unless you think that he will be impacted in it, such as if he is upset by it or seems bothered by it after a while, or if he begins to treat you differently because of it. If so, you may want to talk to him and see why he is acting that way towards this.

You don't have to explain yourself or your actions if he isn't affected. It was completely an accident that he caught you, and your sex life is personal. You have the right to keep it that way if you want to!


   
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Re: busted by my brother - August 23rd 2014, 11:37 AM

I imagine he's keen to forget it happened just as much as you are.

If he's concerned, wait for him to come to you.
   
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Re: busted by my brother - August 23rd 2014, 01:55 PM

Talking to him about it if he doesn't say anything will probably just make him uncomfortable. So like the users above said, you should just leave him alone unless he starts acting weird or if he actually comes to you about it.
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Re: busted by my brother - August 23rd 2014, 02:57 PM

cool, just don't want him mentioning it to my parents that's the main thing


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Re: busted by my brother - August 25th 2014, 03:53 AM

I'm sure he doesn't want to remember it anymore than you want to talk with him about it. Just drop it, unless he brings it up to you and starts the conversation. Otherwise there is no sense making him more uncomfortable.


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