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Don't know what happened - December 16th 2014, 03:31 AM

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So last Friday night (December 12), my girlfriend and I engaged in unprotected sex. I know that's really unsafe, but the pleasure is amazing. So, she's riding me and as I felt my ejaculation build up, I pushed her off of me. I think I didn't ejaculate but after a little of her getting off of me, I slowly became flaccid. I didn't think nothing of it because once or twice before I have gone flaccid while engaging in intercourse after like 30 minutes of being aroused. So I told her to ride me again to continue my orgasm. I was still soft but after she provided oral sex, I became a little hard again. So after unsuccessful riding, I'm nearly completely soft. I didn't think I ejaculated and to make sure I rushed to the restroom and finished myself (after I urinated, odd). But yeah, I came to my masturbation to make sure I didn't ejaculate in her because I didn't feel it for sure. My question is, is there a way to know if I did ejaculate in her or if there is a huge possibility if she is pregnant. I know her last period cycle ended like a day or two after Thanksgiving. Also, I want to emphasize I'm nearly 99% sure I didn't ejaculate in her. I would have felt it right? I'm also really paranoid, this is all I'm thinking about.

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Re: Don't know what happened - December 16th 2014, 02:46 PM

Hey there,

It's completely normal to be freaking out, but if you're sure you didn't ejaculate inside her, there will be no issues. You would have felt if you had, anyway. At least, this is my experience when engaging in sex with my boyfriend.

In the future, I'd recommend sticking with condoms so an incident like this doesn't occur again.
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Re: Don't know what happened - December 16th 2014, 03:51 PM

I agree with Shannon, you would have felt it if you would have ejaculated inside her and there isn't a chance of her getting pregnant if you didn't. It's very understandable for you to be freaking out, but, like Shannon, I would recommend using condoms in the future to avoid all the stress and to be safer.

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Re: Don't know what happened - December 16th 2014, 06:17 PM

If you were that worried, then you should've asked her to take the Plan B pill. But if it's already been past 3 days then forget it. If I were you, I'd start using a condom so you don't have future mishaps that lead to anxiety.

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Re: Don't know what happened - December 16th 2014, 10:18 PM

I've added a Non PG-13 label due to sex descriptions that go a bit overboard for users under 13.

I don't think you ejaculated in her, because as a girl, it's VERY obvious when a guy does, but there's still the chance of pre-cum, which can have sperm in it contrary to popular belief. Plus there's a chance in the future that you may not be able to pull out in time. I'd recommend in the future that you either use a condom, encourage her to use birth control, or both. I know it "feels good" to be unprotected, but safety first. You're obviously worried about pregnancy, so you should definitely protect each other.

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