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Unhappy Stupid actions.. - July 31st 2015, 09:35 AM

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I just want to say I know that this was stupid and completely dangerous and just once again stupid. I was feeling sad and lonely so I went on omegle and you know how it goes.... I started off doing chats and I said I was 19 then I switched it to my real age of 16. Then I decided to do a video..... There was a guy jerking it and I kinda took my shirt off and, you know. I never showed my face but I got banned and now I'm having a panic attack because I'm terrified that the police will come and question my parents or I'll get in trouble I know it was stupid to do and I know I'm an idiot for doing it but I just have to know is that an actual possibility? Is there a chance the police could come? On the video I never said my age or anything just on the chats.
   
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Re: Stupid actions.. - July 31st 2015, 05:06 PM

First of all, welcome to TeenHelp!

I doubt that either of these will happen to you. However, it's important to realize that creating sexually suggestive images or videos of yourself when you are underage is highly illegal. It can be considered the production and distribution of child pornography and can come with a hefty penalty, including jail time. That is something to remember going forward in the future. Again, I doubt the police will come knocking on your door, but hopefully this means you've learned a valuable lesson and won't repeat the same mistake twice.



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Re: Stupid actions.. - August 12th 2015, 12:12 AM

DC is correct in everything they said, and I don't mean to make the situation seem less in favor of comfort, but I've been down the same anxiety/paranoia path that comes from things like this. It sounds like you've learned your lesson, and I know how crappy it feels to beat yourself up over something, so I'll say this;

There are a lot of people in the world. There are a lot of people on omegle. There are not a lot of cops in comparison to the number of people on omegle, especially the number of teenagers who go through situations such as this.

While it is by no means safe to do something like you did (and I did, once upon a time), I think we tend to worry ourselves more than necessary, instead of actually processing what happened, why we did it, and how to keep ourselves from making choices that will lead to anxiety and paranoia in the future.

On that note, the line I repeat to myself is "nothing permanent". If the thing I'm thinking about doing will likely have permanent effects on my life, I either don't do it or wait a week to think about it. Impulse control is key. Good luck.

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