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Question What in the world should I do? - January 21st 2017, 08:23 PM

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Okay, so one of my friends and I have decided to lose our virginity to each other. But I'm very nervous because what if he judges my body? Or what if I'm not good enough? Please let me know what you think I should do!
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Re: What in the world should I do? - January 21st 2017, 09:02 PM

I mean, it shouldn't matter how you look. As long as the two of you love one another and have communicated about going ahead with sex. There should be absolutely no reason to not have sex, and how your body looks shouldn't be an excuse. I know losing your virginity is a big thing, believe me! Maybe that might be a part of it, have they seen you naked before? Maybe take it slowly instead of jumping into bed. Undress, let the two of you observe yourselves in a nude environment shortly. Trust me, I'm sure your partner will pay you compliments.

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Re: What in the world should I do? - January 22nd 2017, 11:12 AM

I'm pretty sure that if he was a good enough friend to the point where you're willing to trust each other enough to have sex, that he wouldn't care what you look like. Just relax and enjoy it, it's fun.

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Re: What in the world should I do? - January 22nd 2017, 04:07 PM

Maybe what you guys could do is start off slow. Cuddle with your shirts off and then go from there. That way you can slowly reveal yourself. However, I'm sure if he didn't like your body he wouldn't want to lose his virginity with you.

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