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The wrong way to masturbate (guys) - February 9th 2017, 07:37 AM

I never thought Id make a thread like this because come on, how do you masturbate wrong? Turns out there's a way.
Prone masturbation is basically when for guys, instead of using your hands to masturbate, you hump something soft, like your bed, until orgasm. This was how I discovered masturbation. My mom is such an archaic social conservative that she basically pressured us (me and my brothers) into extreme abstinence where porn is evil, extramarital sex is evil, looking at people with lust is evil (see you in hell then mom, all of humanity EVER does it), and masturbation is evil. She told my dad never to discuss masturbation with me, and she almost severely punished me for finding tissues under my bed. I got the crappiest sex-ed ever where not only is all that stuff evil, but I was fed misinformation at Catholic school like condoms are evil and only offer 67% protection against PREGNANCY. Jesus Christ, and you guys wonder why I've never had a girlfriend, I was basically fed a lie that sex and attraction is poisonous at a very young age.
This led to me finding out what masturbation was in a totally different way than most kids. I was too ashamed to just start touching my junk, even in private, so I basically discovered that feeling up my bed was ticklish, and boom, masturbation discovered. I also realized this is super addictive because it provides more stimulation. Too much stimulation, in fact. I can't masturbate with my hands because it doesnt provide enough stimulation in comparison. Ive done it with my hands about 20 times or less in my life, usually when the only available place to do it was a bathroom. Prone masturbation, probably about 15,000. But this also creates a problem: vaginas arent stimulating enough either. Although prone masturbators make up 5-10% of men, its possible a MAJORITY of them have the typical male sexual problems, including ED, delayed ejaculation, and anorgasmia (not being able to orgasm during sex). The force you put on the bed can also damage your penis. I remember one time it looked like my scrotum was about to shed skin, like it had crystallized. Im guessing prone masturbation had something to do with it. Me personally, I also don't know my penis very well because I had been using the entire thing to masturbate, so I don't know yet at 21 freakin years old which spots are the most sensitive to feeling.
Apparently the bad effects can be reversed by switching back to using your hands. Im in a weird catch-22 where prone masturbation can be done in about 5 minutes but hand masturbation is a long and potentially painful struggle, so this will be a very tough problem for me to solve. I don't like telling people how to live their lives but if you take away anything from this, remember that beds are for sleeping, wash your hands regularly, and don't take any advice from ANYONE (aside from me, of course) at face value.
More details at this site. Their references sound pretty legit (at face value, where I ironically told you not to accept things).
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Re: The wrong way to masturbate (guys) - February 11th 2017, 01:49 PM

Hey Robert,

There isn't a right or wrong way to masturbate. Using pillows, your bed, or clothing for ways to masturbate isn't the wrong way, in fact many do this. There isn't anything wrong with that method.

I do apologize that your parents thought it was "evil" and never discussed those things with you. You are now an adult and you can do what you feel comfortable doing while exploring your sexuality. Everyone always explores their own sexuality even when they are older, which is completely okay.

Sometimes, the things you do and you are comfortable with and then the things you try that you've never done may feel weird or may not work for you. During masturbation do you use any lubes at all? This can help with not having friction which can become uncomfortable.

Do you ever feel guilty while masturbating? Do you feel bad after or before? Does it create anxiety for you?

I am asking these things is because if you aren't comfortable your body is tense and things won't work in your favor.


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Re: The wrong way to masturbate (guys) - February 11th 2017, 04:56 PM

Im not looking for an apology, lol. I stopped giving a crap about that garbage when I left for college. But do you have evidence that this method is equal to using hands?


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Re: The wrong way to masturbate (guys) - February 13th 2017, 07:40 PM

I don't have evidence as partners have expressed this to me and they enjoy that type of stimulation than other methods. I wasn't comparing this method to using hands, as everyone masturbates in their own unique way. It may be uncommon but it may not be as uncommon as one might think.


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