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March 28th 2017, 07:45 PM

I'm a young gay guy and I have had sex with about 200 guys... Too many? I want a bf but can't find anyone.

Homophobes...

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Re: Sex - March 29th 2017, 12:00 AM

Hi there! Sorry about there being a delay in your response-for forum advice, it usually takes more than a couple of hours for a response.

There's no such thing as "too many" for sexual partners. However, it sounds like you're unhappy with the type of relationships you are having and want to find a longer term bf. I'd recommend being more upfront with dates or folks that you meet and make sure you communicate your intention when hooking up or meeting new people. People aren't mind-readers, so it's important to be upfront about what you're looking for in an encounter; some people are looking for just hookups, and that's fine! But if you're looking for some kind of relationship, enter a dating space (such as a meet up location, online, etc) being clear with that, and you will have better luck for what you're looking for.


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Re: Sex - March 29th 2017, 12:16 AM

I am upfront, I'm constantly letting them know that I'm a weird slut whose legs are always open for business. It doesn't seem to matter what I do.
   
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Re: Sex - March 29th 2017, 12:27 AM

Well, only you can change your sex life. Best of luck!
   
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Re: Sex - March 29th 2017, 12:39 AM

A fiver says this post isn't at all serious. If it is then i'm really questioning why you have just said "it doesn't seem to matter what I do" , maybe if you weren't so upfront you wouldn't be saying things like "I'm a weird slut who's legs are always open for business". Not ideally the starting point for grasping a serious relationship is it? Be yourself.
   
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Re: Sex - March 31st 2017, 06:08 AM

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Re: Sex - April 5th 2017, 05:10 AM

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Re: Sex - April 7th 2017, 08:41 PM

omg i thought having sex with twelve different people at nineteen was a lot.
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Re: Sex - April 8th 2017, 01:44 AM

I don't think that telling people that your a slut who's body is open for business is a good foundation for starting a relationship. You're basically just opening yourself up to hook ups because that's what it sounds like you want. If you are interested in something more serious, I think you need to stop instantly selling yourself as a sexual being who just wants/needs sex and /or is only available for sex. Go on dates, kiss people, talk to them, get to know them, and take sex off the table as the go-to solution because that's not the only thing you're goo for. Reserve it for when the "time is right". Just watch all those ooey gooey rom coms if you want to know what I mean (and then dial it back by about 30 degrees to what "normal" people are like)




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Re: Sex - April 10th 2017, 06:44 AM

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I'm a young gay guy and I have had sex with about 200 guys... Too many? I want a bf but can't find anyone.

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200.. That's too many... :< Hope you'll find the right guy, someday. All the love<3
   
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Re: Sex - April 10th 2017, 09:47 AM

That too many so i advise you to just concentrate on 3 to 4 bf so that y get who y likes
   
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