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if you get blown, do you still have your virginity? - May 23rd 2017, 04:39 AM

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I have had friends tell me different things, but i am really confused still. am I a virgin or not? P.S. my girlfriend wants to know if im a virgin, which is why im asking.

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Re: if you get blown, do you still have your virginity? - May 23rd 2017, 05:26 AM

First off...congratulations!

What you're going to come to find out is that everyone is confident in their belief on what it means to be a "virgin," but those confident answers are going to be different.

Long story short...no one knows what virginity means. It's become self-defined; meaning that virginity means whatever you want it to mean, as long as it's within reason.

If you spend your time deciding on whether or not you're a virgin, you're going to drive yourself crazy...because the answer is both YES and NO.

Some people will say "yes" because there's no physical penetration involved. Some people believe that you lose your virginity when you put your penis inside a woman's vagina. Some people even believe that you lose your virginity when you put your penis inside a woman's butt hole (anal sex). Some people may claim that you can lose your virginity through penis-vagina penetration, but NOT penis-butt penetration.

There's so many exceptions, circumstances, etc...that it's not even worth trying to figure out whether you're a virgin or not.

As a male, you're going to have doubt about your virginity until you actually have sex (penis-vagina penetration). When you actually "get laid," AKA penetrate a woman's vagina/ass, that's the defining moment for most men for them to be confident that they've lost their virginity.

Instead of focusing on your virginity status, just focus on the fact that you finally experienced a blowjob. And if you're unsatisfied with your virginity status, and your girlfriend is up to the task, then engage in penis-vagina/ass penetration with a condom/birth control, so you can move on with your life.

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Re: if you get blown, do you still have your virginity? - May 23rd 2017, 05:38 AM

thanks man! i told her no, and she seemed pretty happy. she said her parents will be gone on friday night( last day of scool and freedom before rehab.)im feeling pretty great right now.
   
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