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14 Male and I want a sex toy. - August 28th 2017, 11:40 PM

I'm 14 and a guy. I've tried to find out how I should approach my mom about getting a sex toy but I can only find threads for women. I am very close to my mom but it seems awkward to ask her. She is very open about sex with me and I can usually talk to her about anything but this is different. Any help or advice on how to approach this? thank you!
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Re: 14 Male and I want a sex toy. - August 29th 2017, 02:08 AM

I mean I would personally consider waiting till you're a little older and buying one yourself or using Amazon and just informing her if you truly need one
I have that problem too so I understand how frustrating it gets and you want something different but you could try different ways to masterbate before buying one! (You can pm me and I can send you some websites or give you adivce)

Otherwise you could explain to her that it's frustrating or hard to do and you think it would be easier for you too have one (please keep in mind she my freak a little) I'd offer to pay for it yourself if I were you but whatever you think would make her more comfortable and no offense maybe wait till you're a bit older she may be more willing then~

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Re: 14 Male and I want a sex toy. - August 29th 2017, 02:36 AM

If you really want one and cannot bring yourself to tell your mom. If you have your own debit card you can always go on amazon, or sex stores online and buy one. The places I've gotten them shipped from don't say exactly where they are ordered from so your mom wouldn't know.

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Re: 14 Male and I want a sex toy. - August 29th 2017, 04:38 AM

My mom sounds very similar to yours in that regard. She's always been really open about sex haha. I think that if you ask her, she might be a little surprised at first, just because it would probably be an unexpected request - but I think she'll understand. Like someone else suggested, offering to pay for it yourself might go a long way if she's hesitant. You *might* be able to buy one without asking her, but I think that there are sometimes age restrictions and I'm not sure if you could get around them; plus, I think that your mom would probably appreciate you being open about it instead of going behind her back.

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Re: 14 Male and I want a sex toy. - September 3rd 2017, 05:35 PM

I am not sure what toy you need, dildo or something else?
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Re: 14 Male and I want a sex toy. - September 3rd 2017, 05:47 PM

If your mom is open about sex with you then it is unlikely she will even care if you bring this up. Also, talking to her about it might be a good idea because she might be able to help you find the best toy within your price range so that you end up getting the most out of it. I know it will be awkward but if she is open about sex it's likely that she'd be open to discussing this with you and, I personally, think it can help to have someone to go to about this kind of stuff so that you can get advice etc.

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Re: 14 Male and I want a sex toy. - September 4th 2017, 03:44 PM

I am sure your mum will be the best person to talk to about this, no doubt about it. It makes the whole opening up thing a whole lot easier since you mentioned that she is very open to sexual related topics.
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