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This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 29th 2017, 01:35 PM

Well theres a girl got to know from hot or not i have bin talking with her for a long and i have bin snapping with her as well and sometimes she just send sexy snaps oit of nowhere she sended videos of her smoking in her bra haha and today she just sended me a close up of her ass i teased her about it and she loved it but it also confusing we planed to meet next weekend does she like or what is going on idfk


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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 29th 2017, 05:23 PM

I'm not exactly sure how this girl is being confusing. From what I can tell, she is straightforward, but probably wants to meet you in person before she begins anything with you. But I do have to advise against sending each other inappropriate pictures (ie, including nudity) as you can be charged with child porn.
   
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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 29th 2017, 05:31 PM

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I'm not exactly sure how this girl is being confusing. From what I can tell, she is straightforward, but probably wants to meet you in person before she begins anything with you. But I do have to advise against sending each other inappropriate pictures (ie, including nudity) as you can be charged with child porn.

FIRST OFF I DIDNT SEND ANY SEXAUL PICS SHE DOES NON NUDE and second how can that be child porn? And 3rd i never had a girl sending sexy pics of them self so thats why its confusing me is it just a thing she does or does she likes me any thank you


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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 29th 2017, 05:52 PM

Just ask her, it wouldn't hurt. I know there are girls out there who enjoys sending their pictures to any random guy off the street, but there are others who are more conservative and send it to just the one guy they like.

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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 29th 2017, 06:26 PM

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FIRST OFF I DIDNT SEND ANY SEXAUL PICS SHE DOES NON NUDE and second how can that be child porn? And 3rd i never had a girl sending sexy pics of them self so thats why its confusing me is it just a thing she does or does she likes me any thank you
it's worth saying bud that there are alot of girls online that are very open in sexual ways.

This is because the security offered by the internet makes people do things they otherwise might not.

Other people may actively seek sexual companionship, starting with online flirting / pic swapping and then gradually meeting up to be "friends with benefits"

Rarely do these people who are very sexually open seek long-term relationships. They may also be people with low self-esteem seeking approval. Take care!
   
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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 29th 2017, 07:12 PM

If she is under the age of consent in your country and she is sending suggestive pictures then it could be viewed as child porn. There are a lot of teens that do end up getting away with it because the authorities don't want to deal with it but there have been cases of people getting into trouble for it.

That being said, this girl might like you or she might only be interested in having a sexual relationship. There is this huge misconception that it's only guys who seek out strictly sexual relationships. The fact is that some girls don't want a relationship but they want sex. I've known guys who have, essentially, been used for sex by girls. It's not something that gets broadcasted all that much though.

I think that the best thing to do is to ask the girl what she is looking for. Are you two on the same page? If you aren't it might not be worth meeting up. Also, in reality, even if you ask her what she is looking for, she might lie to you. I've had a few guys lie to me about their intentions and then once they realized that I wasn't going to have sex with them any time soon they walked out. But, it can help to let her know what you are looking for and to try and get an idea regarding what she is looking for as well.


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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 29th 2017, 07:22 PM

Thank you all for the replys i just like to have her as a good friend and even more if shes up for it but im to scared to ask what she feels or want i quess i will see when we hang out


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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 29th 2017, 07:26 PM

no i think you should discuss it beforehand, because too often when you meet up with someone from online you can both go into that situation with different expectations of what's going to happen. that can put both of you in a dangerous situation.

it's not weird or awkward to ask what she's looking for at the moment, if she's open to friendships, friends with benefits, a relationship, etc. you don't even need to say it's with you, you can just ask in general what she's looking for.
she'll probably ask you in return, or you can just tell her you're just looking for a friend and maybe more. that can help set some boundaries and expectations for when you meet up so no one feels surprised or pressured to do something they don't want to.


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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 29th 2017, 07:36 PM

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no i think you should discuss it beforehand, because too often when you meet up with someone from online you can both go into that situation with different expectations of what's going to happen. that can put both of you in a dangerous situation.

it's not weird or awkward to ask what she's looking for at the moment, if she's open to friendships, friends with benefits, a relationship, etc. you don't even need to say it's with you, you can just ask in general what she's looking for.
she'll probably ask you in return, or you can just tell her you're just looking for a friend and maybe more. that can help set some boundaries and expectations for when you meet up so no one feels surprised or pressured to do something they don't want to.

About dangerous situations can you maybe give some examples


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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 30th 2017, 10:38 AM

Alright i just asked her we she sends pictures like that and she just said bc i like it wtf does that mean ?!?!?!


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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 30th 2017, 12:40 PM

She probably thinks just because you're a guy you want to see pixs of her. If you want something more than just naughty pixs, then tell her. Make it clear to her.
   
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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 30th 2017, 12:45 PM

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She probably thinks just because you're a guy you want to see pixs of her. If you want something more than just naughty pixs, then tell her. Make it clear to her.

Idk how to do that and i never asked for them


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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 30th 2017, 12:50 PM

Just tell her you want actual convo and if you don't want the pixs, then tell her. I don't think it's weird for a guy and a girl to have a convo that doesn't involve naughty pixs. I know you probably worry about sounding dorky or lame, I would too. Just make it clear to her, also tell her to lay off because like abibliophobe and I said, you could get in trouble for something you never asked for.
   
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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 30th 2017, 12:57 PM

Well i dont mind the pictures�� btw legal here im just confused why she sends them to me she doesnt know me that well and we never met irl yet


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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 30th 2017, 01:05 PM

Maybe ask her what she's looking for, if it's just sex or an actual relationship? Nothing wrong with that, I don't think.
   
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Re: This girl is confusing as hell haha - August 30th 2017, 04:10 PM

There could be a number of reasons as to why she sent the pictures. She could be flirting, she could like doing it, she could be under the impression that you will like it. If you want to figure out where this relationship is going or what she wants, you should straight out ask her "What are you looking for in this friendship?" I've straight out told guys that I talked to that I was not looking for sex and I was simply looking to get to know someone and see where it goes. It might have been a bit blunt but I didn't want to waste my time with someone that was only looking for sex. In a lot of cases, you have to be pretty upfront with someone. The fact is, she might not want anything more than to have fun and if that's not what you want it could lead to one, or both of you, getting hurt.


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