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Boob self consciousness - March 1st 2018, 06:06 AM

Hi. I am 12 years old (as suggested by my username) and my boobs are a editedc. I feel self conscious because they are so tiny - my measurements are a edited rib and edited bust. even though they are a editedc they still look tiny and my friend has boobs that are editedc and i wish mine were bigger. But my friend always tells me i look good with small boobs because i am short - only 4 ft and 9.7 inches. But here's the thing. I've already gotten my period and the doctors have said i will only grow to about 5 ft tall. But looking at my family tree i know my boobs will be at least editeddd. So what do i do? All my friends say i look better with smaller boobs because of my stature but i know when my boobs grow that they will look humongous on me. How do i deal with this?

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Re: Boob self consciousness - March 1st 2018, 09:05 AM

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Honestly your boobs will grow you just have to be patient. They grow at different rates. Also there is no exact way to know what size cup you will be. My whole family ranges from small to huge.

I would just be patient. Mine didn't start growing till I was 14.

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Re: Boob self consciousness - March 1st 2018, 06:39 PM

Hi. Try not to stress yourself out. Your body will grow. And your family tree doesnt always predict boob stuff.most my family tree are tall and stuff. Tho im small. Im bout same height as you and i just turned 16 recently. I havent yet started puberty so i have no boobs. Your boobs should grow to match your body type so you will be fine.
   
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Re: Boob self consciousness - March 2nd 2018, 12:12 AM

Your boobs will grow at their own rate; everyone's body is different. As others have said, family tree isn't always an indicator of what size your breasts will be. My guess is, as you are twelve years old, they're going to grow more with puberty. If they do get bigger, that's okay; it's really not your friends' place to comment on what size boobs "look good" on you. What matters is what you're happy with, not what others think, and that includes anyone- family, romantic partners, friends, etc.

If you get older and you aren't happy with how you look you can always speak with your doctor about procedures to help you get the ideal size and shape, but for now embrace your body as best you can. So many girls have trouble accepting themselves as is and if you can find a way to achieve that at your age then that would be awesome. You're beautiful just as you are, and if you can accept and embrace that then that will go a long way towards helping you.

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Re: Boob self consciousness - March 2nd 2018, 01:11 AM

Please don't worry. Your breasts will grow to whatever size they are meant to be. As the others have said, just because most of your family members have boobs which are a certain size it doesn't really mean yours will necessarily be that size.

The media constantly presents us with images of sexualised, photo shopped breasts that all seem to look the same. But in reality boobs come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. But big or small, saggy or perky, rounded or more pointy, all boobs are lovely, natural and perfectly okay.

I remember finding puberty a really unsettling time and I felt quite uncomfortable in my own skin for a while. It's normal to be worried about the changes your body is going through but remember that all bodies are beautiful in their own way and embrace whatever nature eventually gives you - you only get one body after all so you might as well try to love it! It's also important to keep in mind that you are a lot more than your body, it's just one part of what makes you who you are.

Also, try not to worry about what your friends think about your boobs and your body. Their opinions aren't really important. What matters is what YOU feel about your body.

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