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I had a slight issue when giving my friend oral sex - June 1st 2018, 12:46 PM

Hi everyone I've been seeing this guy who started out as a friend... I am now quite serious with him and we are both gay. I was giving him oral sex as bad as this is gonna sound but I had trouble sucking his penis because it was so big. I don't want to say anything to him but I can not fit it in my mouth. I don't know what to do or how to talk to him about it.
   
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Re: I had a slight issue when giving my friend oral sex - June 1st 2018, 02:30 PM

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Oral sex isn't something everyone likes or that everyone wants to do. If you are struggling with giving him oral sex I would suggest that you explain to him what you did here. I know you feel that it is embarrassing but having a sexual relationship with someone requires communication if something is not working. If you like performing oral sex but are struggling for this one reason talking to him might be a good idea because he might have suggestions that will help you.

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Re: I had a slight issue when giving my friend oral sex - June 1st 2018, 07:09 PM

I agree with Jenna. I know it's embarrassing but sexual relationships require a lot of communication, especially if you're serious with someone. It's okay to explain why it's a struggle for you. There are other ways to be sexual and the two of you can explore them together, or he may have some tips for you on how to make it easier/how to please him. I have a feeling you can find a situation that's a win-win for both of you.

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Re: I had a slight issue when giving my friend oral sex - June 4th 2018, 11:33 AM

Hi guys!

My friends went to the club last night without me as I was staying in bed and watching Netflix. The bouncers said I needed to apologise but would never let me back in again... I don't want to go and say sorry just so they can laugh in my face though... I know I did wrong but I don't want someone mocking me I wont stand for that.
   
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Re: I had a slight issue when giving my friend oral sex - June 4th 2018, 01:37 PM

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My friends went to the club last night without me as I was staying in bed and watching Netflix. The bouncers said I needed to apologise but would never let me back in again... I don't want to go and say sorry just so they can laugh in my face though... I know I did wrong but I don't want someone mocking me I wont stand for that.

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I am confused, why did the bouncers say you need to apologize? Did you do something wrong? The more information you could provide the better able we might be at help you.


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Re: I had a slight issue when giving my friend oral sex - June 4th 2018, 01:50 PM

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Re: I had a slight issue when giving my friend oral sex - June 5th 2018, 09:14 AM

Tell your friend directly about your problem. I think he should understand you.
   
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Re: I had a slight issue when giving my friend oral sex - June 8th 2018, 10:11 AM

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Tell your friend directly about your problem. I think he should understand you.
Yeah. Anyway it must be a conversation. In any situation must be conversation.
   
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Re: I had a slight issue when giving my friend oral sex - June 27th 2018, 05:14 AM

Communication is key! If you talk to him, perhaps he can tell you other things he likes that would still bring him pleasure. You can also likely google this information.
   
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