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PLEASE HELPP!! - August 25th 2018, 11:15 AM

Can you get Std/Hiv/ aids or anything in oral sex or grinding when you are both virgin? Like we didnt havr any sexual activities with someone before, this is our first time, we are also a firstime in our relationship can youuu? And also, yesterday I gave my gf an oral, and today I felt something rough on my lips whenever I rub my top and bottom lip. It looks like something white spots on my lip. What does this mean? Anyway this is our first time doing this thing please help!!!
   
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Re: PLEASE HELPP!! - August 25th 2018, 05:47 PM

Sexually transmitted infections are transmitted person to person through sexual activity. They cannot just appear on somebody. Some infections are passed through oral sex or body grinding, and some can even be passed mother to child, but you would have to have that infection to pass it if that makes sense.


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Re: PLEASE HELPP!! - August 26th 2018, 01:23 AM

The question is can I? Can wee? If we are both virgins, we didnt do anysecual activities beforedith someone else
   
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Re: PLEASE HELPP!! - August 26th 2018, 03:25 PM

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The question is can I? Can wee? If we are both virgins, we didnt do anysecual activities beforedith someone else
Hello, like Traci pointed out, you can only get STI's or other sexually transmitted diseases through sexual contact. Since both you and your partner are virgins, neither of you can get a STI, unless one of your parents has one. STIs can be transmitted sexually or by birth.


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Re: PLEASE HELPP!! - August 26th 2018, 11:46 PM

Like it's been said, not likely at all. If neither of you have engaged in activities before, you can't have gotten an STI. STI's don't just appear on/in a person.

In rare cases, and STI can be passed from mother to her infant (e.g. during pregnancy or breast feeding) but the chances of a person getting from infancy to the age where they're performing sexual activities without knowing that their mom gave them an STI is super low

Given that neither option applies to you or your partner, I wouldn't worry about it.
   
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