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Cant get boners - April 1st 2019, 07:03 AM

[SIZE="a"]I always am capable to have boners but some how if im with girls i cant get them even when the time is right what can i do i still feel nervous around them in a subconscious way[/size]
   
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Re: Cant get boners - April 3rd 2019, 01:19 AM

Why do you think you should have an erection just because you're with a girl? It's okay to be with someone you like and not neccesarily get a "boner" around them. Maybe you guys are doing something that wouldn't elicit sexual arousal, such as playing video games or eating pizza. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Do you want to have sex with a girl you like and are nervous about it? Do you even know if she wants to have sex? How long have you been acquainted with one another, or dating? I think maybe sitting down with her and having a chat, see where your conversation goes and if both of you have mutual consent, try it out. If you don't get a boner then, that doesn't mean there's something wrong with you! Also, do not let the girl think something is wrong with you either or that you are some [insert derogatory homosexual slang here] at all.

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Re: Cant get boners - April 3rd 2019, 05:32 AM

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Why do you think you should have an erection just because you're with a girl? It's okay to be with someone you like and not neccesarily get a "boner" around them. Maybe you guys are doing something that wouldn't elicit sexual arousal, such as playing video games or eating pizza. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Do you want to have sex with a girl you like and are nervous about it? Do you even know if she wants to have sex? How long have you been acquainted with one another, or dating? I think maybe sitting down with her and having a chat, see where your conversation goes and if both of you have mutual consent, try it out. If you don't get a boner then, that doesn't mean there's something wrong with you! Also, do not let the girl think something is wrong with you either or that you are some [insert derogatory homosexual slang here] at all.

Best of luck!
Thank you for your reply and i known this girl for a week or so and ofc i dont want boners when where doing normal activities but if where like making out or doing other sexual stuff it jus doesn't want to get hard even tho im very relaxed in my mind on our second "meetup" i was super nervous i was even shaking but last day i was just extremely clm and enjoying every moment and haha i did think about calling my self a homosexual term about my self it makes me feel less of a man intryes to get boners just without her and i do get them but some how there harder to get then previous i got them juat thinking bout girls

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