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How to have sex with a girl best way possible - April 13th 2019, 05:58 PM

So today for the first time in my life I actually attempted to have sex with a girl but it didnít work Iím so frustrated and mad at my self. For it sheís a virgin like me so where both inexperienced she was pretty wet from the inside but not much from the outside we tried multiple times but my dick would get in just the very end of the tip when I was fingering her it hurted alittle for her How can I make it easy to have sex with her if I do ever get the chance again so females what is the best thing I could do?


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Re: How to have sex with a girl best way possible - April 14th 2019, 03:12 PM

Make sure you're wearing a condom, those are usually lubricated a bit and that might help with the pain if it's at least gliding easily, I would also recommend using a ton of lube.

Also, if she's nervous, it might cause the muscles in her vaginal canal to be too tight, and it might be hard to get a penis in, especially if you're wider and she's got a narrower vaginal canal. You might just have to take it slowly.

For me, the end goal of sex is never just penetration, it's never just goal 1: penetration goal 2: orgasm, I prefer the whole experience. This is especially true for women who generally require external penetration via the clitoris to orgasm. They've done studies and something like 80% of women require external or clitoral stimulation in orgasm and cannot orgasm by penetration alone. It's so much easier for men in that respect. If penetration is proving difficult, don't let it discourage you. Instead, I'd like to recommend that you learn how to really give attention to her clit, figure out how to stimulate it while penetrating, etc.

Also, for the first few times it's probably not going to be super comfortable for her because it takes time for many women's vaginal muscles to get used to accepting penetration, so just try not to get too excited and lose you're cool. Make sure you go slowly and communicate a lot; make sure you stop and shift to just external stimulation if it's hurting too much.
   
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Re: How to have sex with a girl best way possible - April 14th 2019, 05:26 PM

I would also like to add that the "wet" doesn't actually come from the vagina. It's a huge misconception. It's not urine either, so don't freak out about that. I don't know the exact details of it, so someone else may be able to explain better.

ETA: Unfortunately, as usual, Google is not being helpful. I remember reading about it within the past year or so.
   
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Re: How to have sex with a girl best way possible - April 14th 2019, 06:01 PM

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I would also like to add that the "wet" doesn't actually come from the vagina. It's a huge misconception. It's not urine either, so don't freak out about that. I don't know the exact details of it, so someone else may be able to explain better.

ETA: Unfortunately, as usual, Google is not being helpful. I remember reading about it within the past year or so.
Thanks for the respond but i was actually wondering how I could fix the problem with me not being able to put my dick in side her because sheís just to tight


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Re: How to have sex with a girl best way possible - April 14th 2019, 06:43 PM

I think Latte gave some wonderful suggestions. Lubes, have some fore play first. Unfortunately, we are not allowed to give explicit (literally) details. I would do some research. Lubes, what type of foreplay, what else you can do to make sex comfortable for both of you.
   
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