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Exclamation Advice to others - May 24th 2019, 07:31 PM

Don't let this happen to you!!! I started babysitting for a couple when I was 14 and by the time I was 16 I had a major crush on the guy who is in his 30's. In March after I turned 17 I started giving him little hints hoping he would catch on but didn't really expect him to. One evening after babysitting as he was driving me home he told me I had turned into a beautiful young lady. I was flattered quickly replying that he wasn't bad looking himself to see his reaction. To my surprise he wanted to know if I would be interested in getting together sometime to which I said yes. A few days later he called asking me out that evening. He took me to dinner then afterward ask if I would like to spend a little more time together. Of course I told him yes. He drove straight to a Holiday Inn which surprised me and wanted to know if I was ok with it.There was no doubt what we were there for. I was a little nervous but approved. I was embarrassing undressing in front of him. I had made out before but nothing else so it didn't take long for him to have me very excited. After we made out for a while he rolled over on top of me getting ready to do it. When I ask if he wasn't going to use a condom he didn't stop telling me he didn't have one. When he started making love to me I told him he should know I wasn't on birth control leaving out that it was my first time. We made made love for some time then I had the experience of going ALL the way my very first time having sex. After that evening in mid-March we got together two more times in April once just before my period then again 4 or 5 days after. The second time we used a condom but it wasn't as good so the last time I ask him to do it again withont one since I had just had a period. Now I regret that I made that mistake and having the affair because I got pregnant

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Re: Exciting but Regretful - May 26th 2019, 05:35 AM

I'm so sorry this happened.
While what you both did is considered illegal and disrespectful to his wife, have you reach out to any planned parenthood centers or hospitals? Maybe friends?
Planned Parenthood should know what to do in these situations. Explain what happened. They won't judge you for the mistakes you made. It happens more often than you think.
I hope you get through this. Good luck

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Re: Advice to others - May 27th 2019, 07:19 PM

I am so sorry to hear this has happened to you. Is there anyone you are able to speak to? A friend, family member, trusted adult? You shouldn't have to go through this alone. I wish you all the best and don't hesitate to reach out again if you have to.

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Re: Advice to others - June 27th 2019, 03:03 AM

What a bad situation. I feel you
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Re: Advice to others - July 19th 2019, 11:13 AM

Well, you just ruinned his mariage
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Re: Advice to others - July 22nd 2019, 09:17 AM

Hi there,

I am so sorry that you had to go through this. If there is anything I can help you with, just let me know.

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Re: Advice to others - August 1st 2019, 03:28 PM

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Well, you just ruinned his mariage
I think that this was really insensitive and quite rude. Mind you hes the one who took her to the hotel. I think a more fair way to put it is that the marriage is in trouble. No one person bears the blame.

Tori, I am sorry that you are going through this. Please let me know if there is anything we can do. Im sorry that this gentleman has put you in this situation to start with.
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