horny but too tired

[I-Love-him]

ok,this is frustrating.
i'm usualy a very horny person but lately i feel horny (only slightly) but the only time i get to 'sort myself out' is at night,however lately i just get far too tired at night to do anything!! it's ridiculous and annoying because i have a boyfriend and he really gets me going but lately i can't have text sex with him because i just fall asleep! . i also think my libido is decreasing slowly! but my boyfriend really turns me on but i never feel the need to touch myself!. why is this happening?? i'm not stressed, i'm very happy! i'm worried i may eventualy get too tired to even do anything with my boyfriend! it has been warm lately and mabye thats why i get tired but i thought warm weather was suppose to increase the sex drive??
this is more of a rant than anything but i would like to know what you think, why is my libido decreasing??? am i mabye getting a cold or something??
i hope i don't loose my sex drive for ever and i hope i find some energy during the night eventualy! lol
thanks guys and girls.x

[20 Dollar Nose Bleed]

You don't need to worry about this, everyone goes through short spells like this and i'm betting it's the heat. Me and my boyfriend noticed that we really didnt have alot of sex last summer but we were both gagging for it - it was just way too hot! So yeah, the hot weather for me at least results in alot less sex.
Your sex drive will return to normal soon enough, you're 17 and you have a LOOONG time until you have to worry about losing that yet. Believe me. Just sleep, I know you might get frustraited at that but if you're tired then it's the best thing to do right now. Fighting your sleep away wont help the situation. If your boyfriend asks about it then just explain to him that you feel SOSO tired and he'll understand. =]

[I-Love-him]

Originally Posted by 20 Dollar Nose Bleed

You don't need to worry about this, everyone goes through short spells like this and i'm betting it's the heat. Me and my boyfriend noticed that we really didnt have alot of sex last summer but we were both gagging for it - it was just way too hot! So yeah, the hot weather for me at least results in alot less sex.
Your sex drive will return to normal soon enough, you're 17 and you have a LOOONG time until you have to worry about losing that yet. Believe me. Just sleep, I know you might get frustraited at that but if you're tired then it's the best thing to do right now. Fighting your sleep away wont help the situation. If your boyfriend asks about it then just explain to him that you feel SOSO tired and he'll understand. =]

ok thank you :-).so does EVERYONE have short periods were they just loose there libido's sligtly?? even at the age of 17???.
yh sleep sounds like a good idea lol but i only get tired at night! . is there possibly anything i can eat that will boost my libidio??? ooh and slightly off topic of sex but what foods give you energy?? lol. or will i just have to be patient and wait for it to return ? lol
x

[delilah]

Acutally if your relatoinship isn't long distance, you shuld have sex anyway, apprently having sex often, makes you want to have more sex more often. It increases your libido just doing it..
i went through a spell like that..in fact i do sort of every 5 monthsish, and now i've realised if i just push on and keep having sex, and i find after having sex once or twice i'm really keen for it again.

[I-Love-him]

Originally Posted by delilah

Acutally if your relatoinship isn't long distance, you shuld have sex anyway, apprently having sex often, makes you want to have more sex more often. It increases your libido just doing it..
i went through a spell like that..in fact i do sort of every 5 monthsish, and now i've realised if i just push on and keep having sex, and i find after having sex once or twice i'm really keen for it again.

does this include foreplay too??
because me and my boyfriend aren't having sex,we've only been together for 1 month but we have done other things, basicaly we've done everything except sex.
would that also make me hornier if i do that regularly with him??
also,does this mean if i touch myself more often (even if i'm not horny) then it will increase my libidio??

sorry if that was confusing lol.x

[delilah]

honestly no idea, all i heard is in relation to sex - but hey, no harm in trying is there?

[Phin]

I think it's pretty normal to feel like this once in a while. I'm definitely in the same boat right now... except I'm really sick along with exhausted. I don't even have the energy to masturbate. But I'm sure it'll pass for both of us. Wait it out.

[20 Dollar Nose Bleed]

Originally Posted by I-Love-him

ok thank you :-).so does EVERYONE have short periods were they just loose there libido's sligtly?? even at the age of 17???.
yh sleep sounds like a good idea lol but i only get tired at night! . is there possibly anything i can eat that will boost my libidio??? ooh and slightly off topic of sex but what foods give you energy?? lol. or will i just have to be patient and wait for it to return ? lol
x

There's nothing you can really eat to boost your libido, there are myths around that. Some people say strawberries help and others say asparagus along with other people saying chocolate (the stuff that's like 70% cocoa and all natural) but when it comes down to it they never actually work. Like I said before, EVERYONE gets it. It dosnt matter if they're 17 or 105 it'd still happen once in a while. It's perfectly natural and nothing to worry about at all.

If you want energy then I can suggest taking a nap during the day (if that's possible, you may have school or work) or maybe try an energy drink, although with those drinks you only feel awake for a brief time period and then you drop down and feel even more tired than you did before.

Personally I find that if I have no sexual contact at all then I start to go mad. It's like I HAVE to have it!! But this could be down to the stage you're at in your body Cycle. There are days or weeks when women feel like sex is the very last thing they want because of the stage their cycle is at, so it might be that.

Just remember that there's no NEED to be sexually active 24/7. Alot of couples settle for having sexual contact once every two weeks or something similar. It's not something essential in a relationship, it shouldnt matter how often you get horny. Just let it happen naturally.