Triggering: My step daddy keeps looking at my body

[Mai]

my body developed pretty early and I got big breasts, and whenever my step daddy gets a chance he always looks at them or my butt, sometimes I think it's my fault because I wear revealing clothing but he still looks at me when I'm just wearing normal clothes and I don't really know what to do about it, is it normal for guys to look at me like that because of my body?

[Ennui.]

Hey,

I want to start out by saying that this is not your fault. You should be able to wear whatever type of clothing you want without someone looking at you, and just because someone is a guy doesn't mean they have the right to continue looking at your body when it is clearly making you uncomfortable. Also, you're still a minor and no adult should be looking at a minor like that.

Are you able to talk to your mom about this and let her know what is happening? You can let her know that you've noticed your stepdad has been checking out your body and it is making you feel really uncomfortable. You can ask your mom to talk to him about this and see if it changes his behavior at all.

[FONT=""][COLOR=""][SIZE=""]It's normal for guys to look at girls in "that" kind of way. Though it's definitely and entirely NOT normal to be getting stared at by someone so much older, especially since you're underage, and/or by someone who's supposed to be any kind of parental figure to you.

And it's not your fault, he shouldn't be doing that no matter what you look like or how you dress, and he knows it.... Ennui's advice seems smart to me[/size][/color][/font]

[WhisperingSilence]

hi,
its not your fault, he should not be looking at you in that way at all - its deffinatley not normal for a step dad or any adult to check out a young girls breasts or butt.
Is there someone you can talk to about this - maybe a teacher at school or college, a friend or a friends mum? perhaps you could speak to your mum about it? or a family friend or relative?

[Dawn.]

Hi there,

I agree with the other members. Your step-dad should be looking at you that way and is inappropriate for him to do so.
I also suggest speaking to someone that you trust about it so they are able to guide you as to what you can do.

This is not okay and is highly inappropriate A stepfather should never be checking out his stepdaughter. I would recommend talking to your Mom about this. If you do not have a Mom, then an Aunt or Grandmother would be the next best person to communicate with on this.