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Cherry Popping/Orgasm - June 26th 2009, 02:05 AM

So my boyfriend said that you can't orgasm if your cherry isn't popped..
is this right.? cause well mine isn't and it feel as though i almost have but i don't know yet. keep in mind this is while he's fingering me.


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Re: Cherry Popping/Orgasm - June 26th 2009, 02:10 AM

Every women is different when it comes to orgasms, and a lot of the times it takes awhile for a women to figure what makes her tick, it can take years and different partners to get there. Honestly, I don’t think your hymen has anything to do with orgasms, and I think it may be a way of him trying to have sex with you, or he is just really uneducated when it comes to female anatomy. Please don’t fall for it. A lot of women have orgasms while not having sex, and some women can only have orgasms during sex, and some women just don’t have orgasms. So it really all depends. So if you are not having any right now, do not worry. It’s really no big deal and will just take some time.
I found this site where the girl asks the same question, and the person responding also said that they had nothing to do with one another. Check it out: Is my hymen blocking my orgasm? | Scarleteen.



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Re: Cherry Popping/Orgasm - June 26th 2009, 02:12 AM

okay thank you. I was just wondering cause he said that and i was like hm... maybe! but don't worry he's not pressuring me for sex.


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Re: Cherry Popping/Orgasm - June 26th 2009, 02:54 PM

You can still orgasm even if your cherry isn't popped. For all you know, you might not even have one. Alot of people break theirs while walking or doing sports.


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Re: Cherry Popping/Orgasm - June 28th 2009, 06:19 AM

how will i know if my cherry is popped.?
he was fingering me for the first time and used two fingers but only after i was like super wet so he didn't hurt me and all.. and it like hurt really bad so i made him stop and he tried agian and it hurt still.. how will i know if it's popped.?


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Re: Cherry Popping/Orgasm - June 28th 2009, 10:40 AM

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how will i know if my cherry is popped.?
he was fingering me for the first time and used two fingers but only after i was like super wet so he didn't hurt me and all.. and it like hurt really bad so i made him stop and he tried agian and it hurt still.. how will i know if it's popped.?
depends for different girls.
as somebody already said, you may not have a hymen,sometimes they break during horse riding,walking,doing sports etc. if you do have a cherry and it popped then it may bleed or it may not, it may also hurt but again it depends on the girl,when my cherry popped it didn't hurt at all, just bled.

As for the orgasm question. it's different for different girls but yes you can still orgasm with a hymen because of your clitoris (or however you spell it lol). a lot of girls can orgasm from that. some girls also can't even orgasm during sex - i know i can't!.
so it all depends on your body, my deary
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Re: Cherry Popping/Orgasm - June 28th 2009, 12:36 PM

u so dont need to have sex to have an orgasim... sounds like he just wants to get in ur pants.... dont let him presssure u into anythin! u CAN get an orgasim without having sex! it sorta depends on the woman thou! but ur boyf obviously doesnt kno what goes on!!!
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Re: Cherry Popping/Orgasm - June 29th 2009, 04:51 AM

He knows whats going on. hes not useing me for sex.
He just heard that and wasn't sure. and i was like OH! i'll figure it out.


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Re: Cherry Popping/Orgasm - June 29th 2009, 05:18 AM

If you've been fingered, i'm pretty positive it's safe to say your hymen is broken. He can't get inside you if your hymen isn't broken. He's either not completely fingering you and stroking you more like or he's entering you when he does it. If you can wear tampons and whatnot, then yeah. It's not hard to tell. I mean you could simply spread your legs with a mirror and look at it. I guess it's possible to orgasm and not have sex or break your hymen, but that's never happened to me ever. I've read statistics on what women need to orgasm and a very small percentage of women said they could orgasm just from being touched. And if you have to ask, you probably didn't orgasm. You WILL know when you've orgasmed. Trust me. You either come which is a warm thick clear liquid secreting from your vagina when you climax and sometimes it feels like you're going to pee or you feel as if you absolutely need to grab onto something like the sheets or biting down on a pillow or something like that. Those are just a couple signs. You may not even orgasm for a long time. It takes time for many girls to orgasm or even come for that matter. I'm 20 and still haven't been able to come.

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