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Unhappy pregnant!?!?? - July 23rd 2009, 07:48 AM

im 20 yrs. old. um well i just had sex for the first time. found him on craigslist-yeah i know bad idea. but before that i was a super virgin-never been kissed. im transgendered-female to male. my male name i chose is Nick-that's why is says Nick on my profile as my name. so ive been on testosterone since january. havent had a period since february-the hormones make them stop. basically i hardly have any estrogen in me-just a little but not much. i know i am still able to get pregnant. can you answer this question as if a girl would ask you it? Also boys are welcome to answer too. they know more about how guys cum than what girls know about it. thanks.

he barley ever got hard but he said he didnt cum. i think he may have when we first started cuz when i first started giving him a handjob sticky stuff ended up on my hand. i didnt use that hand for the rest of the time we were doing it. anyways he kept trying to go into me to get hard. just the tip of his penis went into the very start of me. otherwise i was able to keep him out squeezing my legs together. i told him he couldnt go in if he didnt have a condom on. he didnt really listen so i had to slap him upside the head and shove him off me. we only had 1 condom=[ and he had to keep reusing it cuz he couldnt stay hard. but it did NOT break-thank g**. and i put it on him, correctly, to make sure it wouldn't break. and i didnt give him a blowjob.

anyways im wondering should i go get STD checked and checked to see if he got me pregnant? how long should i wait to see if im pregnant or not? even though he said he didnt come, he still went inside the very start of me with just the very tip of his penis. also he kept rubbing the tip of his penis on my clit and over my hole-where he would enter at-i dont think he came though. he said he didnt. he could barely get hard-and couldn't stay hard-anyways. im hoping he didnt. could he have cum and gotten me pregnant doing either of these 2 things? when i get checked for STDs will they check for all of them and how do they do it-blood test? how will they check to see if he got me pregnant or not?

im asking on here cause i dont know a whole hell of a lot about sex=[


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Re: pregnant!?!?? - July 23rd 2009, 09:17 AM

No matter what the situation is, there is always the possibility of getting pregnant if he was inside you at any time. That's just how it works.

The problem is, even if he didn't cum inside of you, there is such a thing as pre-cum. It's basically just a lubricant when stimulated, but it's not quite the same as regular semen. But, the point is, it can still get you pregnant.

You should definitely get yourself tested to see if you have contracted any STDS and to see if you are pregnant. The sooner you find out about any possible disease, the easier to is to treat. In terms of waiting how long before you take a pregnancy test, I would say you usually want to wait about a week after your missed period. As you said though, you don't have one anymore.. But is there any possibilty you have recollection of when you used to have your periods? That could be a good indiciation of when you would have started, when you would have ended, and when a week later would be.

Go get yourself checked. There was plenty of contact with both of your genitalia, and you can never be too safe.

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Re: pregnant!?!?? - July 23rd 2009, 04:17 PM

Without reading your post I'll say that if you had sex, there's a chance you're pregnant.

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Re: pregnant!?!?? - July 23rd 2009, 05:49 PM

You do need to go get checked for STDs. To check for pregnancy, wait 14 days after when you had sex and take a home pregnancy test, It will be accurate then, but if you take it too early, it wont be accurate.


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Re: pregnant!?!?? - July 25th 2009, 12:47 AM

If you're on testosterone and don't have your period, you don't ovulate so the chance of your being pregnant is practically nil even if he did ejaculate in you.
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Re: pregnant!?!?? - July 25th 2009, 03:04 AM

Go to a doctor and get a blood test done for stds and pregnancy. Two birds with one stone.

Becasue you're on hormone therapy, you should be fine on that front.


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Re: pregnant!?!?? - July 25th 2009, 03:44 AM

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If you're on testosterone and don't have your period, you don't ovulate so the chance of your being pregnant is practically nil even if he did ejaculate in you.
For real? how can that be?


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Re: pregnant!?!?? - July 25th 2009, 05:11 AM

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Whenever you have a period it's because you ovulated. If you're not having a period, you're not ovulating. You need to ovulate to get pregnant.



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Re: pregnant!?!?? - August 4th 2009, 07:57 PM

Still there is a teeny tiny chance of pregnancy, like young girls getting pregnant before the have there first period, because it was the first time the ovulated, still get tested for pregnancy and definitely std's! Two weeks after the act is normally well enough to test for pregnancy. Good like dude, my brother is transgender female to male and I watched him go through a similar situation before he started hormone therapy. Definitely educate yourself better next time, and for the record, most boys are ignorant to the workings of there sperm. Don't know why, but apart from on here I have never met a guy who knew he could impregnate a girl on her first time even without ejaculating. Education, my friend, is necessary for sex.


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Re: pregnant!?!?? - August 4th 2009, 08:41 PM

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If you're on testosterone and don't have your period, you don't ovulate so the chance of your being pregnant is practically nil even if he did ejaculate in you.
This is not necessarily true, you may not have a period, but you can ovulate, it’s more rare, but it is possible.




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