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Unhappy Concerned for him... - October 1st 2009, 11:32 PM

Okay, earlier today, me and my boyfriend were fooling around and whatnot, which lead to us having sex. Now, we have had sex before, so when he said that it was hurting him to enter me, i got really concerned and really scared and we stopped immediately. is this normal for a guy? or is there something wrong with me/him? Blah, im so worried T_T.
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Re: Concerned for him... - October 1st 2009, 11:38 PM

It may just have been neither of you were lubricated enough. Try lubricated condoms next time, or some lube. Most likely if it ONLY hurt him when trying to enter you, that was the problem. If it hurts while doing other things as well (just touching it, sitting around, etc) then he needs to see a doctor.

I doubt it was anything to worry about though. Just get some form of lubrication.
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Re: Concerned for him... - October 2nd 2009, 12:32 PM

Ditto the lube thing. If that doesnt help though, Id suggest getting him to see a doctor about it.

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Re: Concerned for him... - October 4th 2009, 03:01 AM

you may be tight on his sensitive skin which needs lubrication, the friction may have pulled at his skin and hurt him. Just make sure he's good and lube up before you have sex next time.

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Re: Concerned for him... - October 4th 2009, 02:48 PM

I agree with everyone else- not having enough lubrication can not only hurt him, but you as well. Make sure to spend a significant time doing some foreplay to get wet, or bring some lubrication with you. Also, if you are "too tight" for him, try having him (or you) finger your body so that it stretches out a little so it won't hurt as much to insert.

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Re: Concerned for him... - October 5th 2009, 06:08 PM

yep i agree...We've been through that too. I never got to try the condom one though bc im allergic but the lube worked wonders.

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