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Lightbulb giving oral to females - December 20th 2009, 09:05 PM

alright, this is pretty strait-forward. i enjoy giving oral to my girlfriend and she says she enjoys it, but i want it to be even better for her. so im basicly asking for any advice, tips or tecniques for giving oral to a girl, all help is appreciated,
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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 21st 2009, 03:51 AM

Hmmm, go down on her, but also use your fingers It's great :P


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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 21st 2009, 04:25 AM

i find that i dont have enough room for my head and my fingers though, lol


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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 22nd 2009, 02:49 AM

i agree with the fingers thing. even if you alternate between your head and fingers.
and don't do the same thing over and over til one of you gets bored, definitely switch it up


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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 22nd 2009, 02:59 AM

Don't be afraid to try different things, even slightly and see how she reacts. Encourage her to give you...feedback as such.



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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 22nd 2009, 03:12 AM

I heard once that if you spell the abc's with your tounge around and on her clit, it feels great to have variation in your "tongue movement" also just spelling things...etc. IDK I think it would probably make it exciting for her.
   
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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 22nd 2009, 04:50 AM

I think that you just have to remember that more isn't always more. If you just use the tip and use less that she will enjoy it more. At least for me. Every girl is different. It can sometimes be weird to talk about. If you are open to talking about it, go for it. If not, watch her reaction.
   
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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 22nd 2009, 06:49 PM

Well, what more can I add to the amazing posts above me?

Just try new things - experiment - and make sure she tells you what feels good =]


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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 22nd 2009, 08:05 PM

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I heard once that if you spell the abc's with your tounge around and on her clit, it feels great to have variation in your "tongue movement" also just spelling things...etc. IDK I think it would probably make it exciting for her.
i watched a really great video on youtube a while ago, which really improved it wen i give it to my gf, the woman said that spelling your abcs isnt a good idea as you get more distracted about doin it right then consentraiting on her clit, you should youtube it, theres a really great video, seriously x


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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 22nd 2009, 08:36 PM

Dont just stick to the clitoris... use the whole area
   
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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 22nd 2009, 08:47 PM

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Dont just stick to the clitoris... use the whole area
this is true, every girl is different, some girls are sensititve on the inner lips as well, as the clit is underneath there, look for that video, it explains it better then i can x


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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 22nd 2009, 09:15 PM

I agree with what people have said before, fingers and changing what your doing etc.
Another thing to try is kissing there every so often inbetween.
   
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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 22nd 2009, 11:38 PM

use your fingers and your tongue
I'm sure it can be tricky but ohhh it's so worth going to the effort
it must be possible because most guys I've been with have used both hehe

Other than that you can manipulate your tounge to make it feel different, use different areas
make it pointier and just use the tip
or use the top and have it softer
alternation is great

especially if you then use your fingers to find her g-spot

   
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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 23rd 2009, 06:34 AM

Above all, communication is the key. Help her to become comfortable with communicating what she wants and needs, and it will take care of itself from there.
   
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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 23rd 2009, 03:40 PM

i can give a really good tip but it depends on her and whether or not she likes it.
when you go down on her, don't just go straight for the clit, work on the skin around it first and the hood on top of it because if you go straight onto the clit,it could get boring or sensitive. unless she likes that, you'll have to ask her but yh coming from personal experiences, focussing directly on the clit sometimes gets boring.
   
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Re: giving oral to females(female advice prefered) - December 28th 2009, 11:45 AM

[edit] realized that giving tips on sexual acts is against forum rules. I'll pm ya!
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