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Unhappy porn.....wrong? - February 14th 2010, 08:42 PM

i found this website that has a lot os sex stories on it. i feel bad about reading the stories but i really like to read them....is reading them wrong? and i a bad person for reading them?
   
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Re: porn.....wrong? - February 14th 2010, 09:03 PM

Nope, it's not wrong to like reading them and you're certainly not a bad person for it.
If you enjoy it and it's not affecting you negatively at all then why not do it?


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Re: porn.....wrong? - February 14th 2010, 10:13 PM

Of course not, it's perfectly normal It's not hurting yourself or anyone else.


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Re: porn.....wrong? - February 14th 2010, 10:32 PM

It's not wrong and it's normal for people of your age to want to experiment with different things.
   
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Re: porn.....wrong? - February 15th 2010, 07:17 PM

thanks. it really helps knowing that im not a bad person
   
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Re: porn.....wrong? - February 15th 2010, 08:31 PM

At your age, it is very normal for you to be liking this sort of thing :] As long as your careful on the net, and reading them doesn't effect your outside life - then it's fine :]


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Re: porn.....wrong? - February 15th 2010, 09:57 PM

Of course it's not wrong. Of course, if your parents find out that you're reading that stuff, they'll get pissed, but it's completely normal, and it doesn't make you a bad person. (:
   
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Re: porn.....wrong? - February 17th 2010, 05:27 AM

surprisingly, i would say reading about it will be beneficial somewhat in the future lol. Your not a bad person, and like everyone else said, at your age, its completely normal to want to read it.
   
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Re: porn.....wrong? - February 22nd 2010, 09:26 PM

Naaaa. I wouldn't say it was wrong. Everyone gets turned on by different things. Do what ever works for you. :]


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Re: porn.....wrong? - February 24th 2010, 02:52 AM

If you enjoy reading about it I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I think the only reason why someone would think it's wrong to READ about it is if it made them unconfortable.


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Re: porn.....wrong? - February 24th 2010, 06:50 PM

Its hardly a bad thing, let alone makes you a bad person. It's like people reading erotic novels. Only these are more easily related too. Or just fun. =)


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Re: porn.....wrong? - March 2nd 2010, 08:35 PM

I don't believe it is wrong. You just have to realise that most of the time, it's not quite like that in real life. Doesn't make you a bad person, just shows you're maturing
   
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Re: porn.....wrong? - March 2nd 2010, 10:55 PM

nope its normal and natural and if you're having fun with it then more power to ya ^_^


   
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Re: porn.....wrong? - March 3rd 2010, 01:42 PM

I second what everyone else has said




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Re: porn.....wrong? - March 4th 2010, 01:36 PM

It's cool to read about stuff and learn things before you try anything serious. Never rush into a relationship when you can masturbate to fun stuff.
   
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Re: porn.....wrong? - March 4th 2010, 02:03 PM

Hey,

As the previous posters have already implied, if you're comfortable with what you're reading then I don't see anything wrong with reading erotic literature. It is only natural (especially at your age) to start become interested in sexual things (whether it is literature or not) and so it's not wrong or unusual. A lot of people do look at sexual literature or images during adolescence and it's a sign of growth and maturity. I certainly don't think that reading these stories makes you a bad person and you shouldn't think that either.

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Re: porn.....wrong? - March 4th 2010, 05:35 PM

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Re: porn.....wrong? - March 5th 2010, 10:07 PM

I second all opinions on this however there are sites that show pics + videos of real people- im not saying its wrong to watch these either but you cant be assured that all the participants are doing it of their free will or getting properly paid and cared for which IS very wrong. so if ur gonna start looking at more visual stuff try and stick to cartoons or be absolutly sure the site is legal. but otherwise all fine
   
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Re: porn.....wrong? - March 6th 2010, 02:24 AM

It's completely normal and natural at your age. But just becareful about some of the sites you go on. Some can be illegal and/or give your computer viruses and things like that.


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Re: porn.....wrong? - March 6th 2010, 06:59 PM

It is not wrong at all. Every English teacher I have ever had told me to read more. But seriously, reading these stories would be considered better by many people than going out and having sex before you're ready. By reading, you may even learn something that could help you out later in life. I hope this helps.


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