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Unhappy Prob the worst thing to ever happen! - March 10th 2010, 02:38 AM

So i posted not too long ago about my boyfriend openly telling his friends about us having sex. and i talked about it with him and we're all good now.

We had sex again the other night (protected) and this time we had music on cause we were just in that vibe.

And the song that came up just as i hit my climax was a Nick Jonas song (Olive & An Arrow). and i moaned out "Nnniiiccckkk"

my boyfriends name is John.

He didn't really comment on it, but i can just tell he ws not happy about that! (he didn't climax as far as i know).

And when ever i try to bring it up he always changes the subject.

I want to apologize!

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Re: Prob the worst thing to ever happen! - March 10th 2010, 03:05 AM

Depends. If you moaned out Nick because you have an unrealistic fantasy, then tell him that you're sorry and that you'll keep your unrealistic fantasies to yourself. If you accidentally said it because you heard the song and knew it was Nick, then just apologize and make a CD or something for next time. Lol



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Re: Prob the worst thing to ever happen! - March 10th 2010, 03:06 AM

Who said romance was dead?!
LOL though, but why would you scream 'Nick' just because hes singing that song..?
I'd be more worried if you screamed something like 'Steve', atleast he knows you ment Nick as in the singer.. If it was anything else he could of thought you were having a bit on the side with someone else!
   
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Re: Prob the worst thing to ever happen! - March 11th 2010, 03:33 PM

Hahah im sorry I had to laugh at that first.
Just explain it to him, he'll probably find the humour in it. =P
Unless he then thinks you have more of a sexual attraction to Nick Jonas than him.
Either way just try to sit him down and explain what happened.
Your mind just wondered to the song and the wrong name came out of your mouth. =P
No biggy. Just tell him, he should understand. Then you two can laugh about it later.


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Re: Prob the worst thing to ever happen! - March 11th 2010, 04:17 PM

Yeah, I agree with what the others said. At least the fact that you said 'Nick' means you were thinking of the ehh..song, whereas if you'd said a totally random name it might be a little harder to explain. I agree that you should just explain about it and apologise, he's probably just a little insecure about it!! And possibly dont play that song again during sex...


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Re: Prob the worst thing to ever happen! - March 11th 2010, 07:50 PM

haha yea try to sit him down and explain that the song just made your mind wander a bit


   
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Re: Prob the worst thing to ever happen! - March 12th 2010, 03:49 PM

I would think that would be really funny and bizare if my gf yelled out the artist name of the song that was playing.


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Re: Prob the worst thing to ever happen! - March 12th 2010, 05:52 PM

just laugh it off. you can't take situations like these too seriously or you'll end up getting more upset about it. just explain that you just had the name nick in your head because of the song. :/


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Re: Prob the worst thing to ever happen! - March 12th 2010, 07:41 PM

Haha, see, this is definitely the type of thing one can over think and worry about. It's a tough situation, but hey it happened, and you will get over it! Just roll it off your shoulders, laugh at yourself, but also apologize. Perhaps next time you should put on different music
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Re: Prob the worst thing to ever happen! - March 14th 2010, 05:16 PM

haha if that happened to me i'd kill myself laughing, sorry but its only gonna bother him if you let it bother you, its no big deal. everyone has fantasies about famous people its how our society works, as others have said laugh it off and make it up to him, he'll forgive you


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Re: Prob the worst thing to ever happen! - March 15th 2010, 01:55 AM

I'm sorry but this did make me laugh, make me want to hit the sack to some Bon Jovi playing. It happens, it was a mistake, its not like you're messing around with Nick Jonas, laugh it off as one of those humorous things that happen during sex. Believe me it could have been worse but sometimes having a sense of humor about things makes it all the sexier...





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Re: Prob the worst thing to ever happen! - March 15th 2010, 07:14 PM

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Perhaps next time you should put on different music
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Try some instrumental music next time so your mind can't wander to who is singing.

Otherwise, just apologize and explain what happened. I'm sure he'll be okay with it if you're honest.


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