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March 20th 2010, 12:40 PM
Is it normal to have screaming pain when you have sex? I recently lost my virginity and have only had sex 2 or 3 times since. It hurts so so bad, and I'll feel horny before we do it but after I feel sad and kind of depressed. It's bothereing me that it hurts so much and there's no pleasure. We've dry humped and that felt really good but this hurts like crazy. Is this normal?
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March 20th 2010, 01:19 PM
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Yes, it is completely normal for sex to hurt during the first few times you have sex. Try and use lube - that should help. Also, it genereally hurts because your vaginal wall is quite tight, you and your partner could overcome this with activities like fingering - if you feel comfortable to do this. Don't carry on with the pain if it's really bad, don't have sex just for your partners sake, take it slow to give your body a chance to adjust to having something within you. I'm sure there will be others on here that can give more advice than I have - but I do know that it's normal for sex to hurt the first few times 
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March 20th 2010, 06:38 PM
Yep, totally normal. There's loooads of threads on this by the way so having a look at them might help!! The trick is... make sure you're relaxed, and ready for sex so that you're wet before he tries to go inside you. Go slowly. Use LUBE ~ it's MAGIIICCCC. Trust me. Sex used to hurt a lot for me the first few times because I'm petite, but we used lube and lubricated condoms ~ worked like a charm. Also, it might be because you're tight. Maybe when you're on your own you could try stretching yourself out a bit with your fingers, and it'll make things easier in the long run.
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March 21st 2010, 04:26 AM
Thanks. Yeah i've seen other threads abouit it hurting, but I wanted to post one just in case. I do get very tense, and I've never been able to comfortably use tampons without a lot of pain and discomfort
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March 21st 2010, 09:07 PM
Oh I used to be the same, definitely!! Part of it is kind of a mental complex as well ~ you expect it to hurt, and you don't want it to, so you tense up more. The only advice I can give, apart from the things I mentioned, is to keep trying. It'll get so much easier. (:
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March 23rd 2010, 03:28 AM
yea it hurt for me the first few times and i thought it was never going to get better but it did. you just have to relax, make sure there is enough lubrication, and just have him be gentle and go slow. it helped me for my boyfriend to enter me and just not move for a minute or so so that i could adjust. we would just be sweet and kiss for that time so i was more relaxed.
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Re: sex hurts. normal? -
March 23rd 2010, 03:51 AM
If he is large, yes it will hurt for awhile until you get adjusted to it. It's normal. I can't even do me on top because it hurts too much because it goes in far so it hits my cervix, and your cervix moves different ways...I can't explain it, with different positions. I find doggy style really comfortable for me.
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