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Blowjobs - April 7th 2010, 12:10 PM

Okay every time I even think about giving someone a blowjob I feel sick. I've tried it twice and threw up after both times, and didnt even finish the job. However they were with people who were sort of using me for sex not being with me cuz they liked me.
One day I want to be able to give the guy I love oral sex... I just don't know how to get from here, my fear of it, to there, enjoying doing it. Any advice anyone? x


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Re: Blowjobs - April 7th 2010, 03:17 PM

Just don't do it unless you feel comfortable with it. Do you like celery? Because a good friend of mine told me that that is what the end product tastes like. Hope I helped x
   
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Re: Blowjobs - April 7th 2010, 04:07 PM

I personally don't like to give blowjobs at all. But you're 15, you're still young. Don't go rushing into things, you have many years left. I'm sure things will look up for you soon.



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Re: Blowjobs - April 7th 2010, 04:54 PM

You said you have a fear of it, what do you think you are scared of?
And just remember to only do it when you are ready and comfortable with the idea. Don't get pressured into it because that will only make your fear worse. When you are ready to do something like that, you'll know because it won't seem as scary, especially if it's with the right person. Just wait (: you have lots of time.


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Re: Blowjobs - April 7th 2010, 05:03 PM

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You said you have a fear of it, what do you think you are scared of?
Okay thats the part i didnt include, the first time I was sexually abused thats what happened, they tried to force me into giving them a blowjob, I was only eight so every time i try im like 8 years old again if that makes sense. But I want to get past that, and be able to do it and enjoy it x


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Re: Blowjobs - April 7th 2010, 05:08 PM

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Just don't do it unless you feel comfortable with it. Do you like celery? Because a good friend of mine told me that that is what the end product tastes like. Hope I helped x
Oh and hunni I TOLD YOU THAT in yr9 x


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Re: Blowjobs - April 7th 2010, 10:37 PM

I am sincerely sorry for what happened to you, but you can overcome it Just know that when you are with the right guy, it will feel right, and you will want to make him feel good, so it will come a lot easier and you'll feel a lot more comfortable.


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Re: Blowjobs - April 7th 2010, 10:43 PM

Hey, I agree with the above post.

Find a guy who you love and trust - and then slowly make small steps towards oral sex. Jumping in with any old guy, is likely to make you more and more nervous about it. Just relax - and use Google for tips. But I also agree you should just enjoy being 15 for a while


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Re: Blowjobs - April 9th 2010, 02:03 AM

I personally think giving somebody a blowjob is disgusting.



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