Non-PG13: On top

[Broken one]

When I was having sex with my bf the other week I tryed going on top for the first time, and I suck at it, I'm really short so found it hard to move and it killed my legs ;;
Anyone have any ideas on how to make it any easier?

[Daydreamer]

Hmm, I'm kinda short too, but I don't really have too much of a problem with it, do you have your legs straight out or bent at the knee? I usually bend my knees when I'm on top. Also it's just a matter of getting comfortable with it and used to the movement. Hope this helps

[TheLittleNinja]

I think any time you try a new position it will be difficult, because your short, would have helped you to physically move further down - so your nearer to him? Does that make sense? Or, maybe you could change which direction your facing when your on top? You just need to find a position that works for your body type

[Magic.]

I'm short too!! Would advise kneeling, as opposed to crouching if that makes sense ... it's a lot easier on your legs. And maybe try facing away from him ... "reverse" and kneeling, again easier on the legs ...

[sexyyrockerr]

get your bf to help support you, get him to hold onto your hips or hold you somehow.

[Broken one]

I was facing forwards and was on my knees and he was helping me by holding my hips but I found it so painful on my legs I just couldn't keep it up and I felt no pleasure at all so in the end he went back on top.
I'm 4ft 4 and he's around 5ft 6 so I don't know if that has something to do with it or if I just need more practice?

[Alicia.C]

I'm 4'10" and my hubby is about 5'9". I'm guessing that when you're on top, your knees don't touch the bed on either side, that definitely makes it hard. You could try squatting instead on kneeling. Ot try one foot down, one knee down. Another thing you could try is getting him to sit up. Also try leaning forward, almost resting on his chest. That may help with it feeling better because it will stimulate your clit.

[Daydreamer]

Originally Posted by Alicia.C

IAlso try leaning forward, almost resting on his chest. That may help with it feeling better because it will stimulate your clit.

Agreed. I didn't realize how short you meant, if your knees don't touch that could make it hard. But remember sometimes it just takes a little adjusting, and if it doesn't work then it doesn't work. There's plenty of other things you can try

[xx little miss clumsy xx]

This takes a while of getting used to. I'm only 5ft 1 and my boyfriend is near enough 6ft, and while I love being ontop, I find I get worn out quickly. I kinda squat and he helps move my hips, if that makes any sense...
Good luck!

[Algernon]

Same thing with me. Thing is, I've never gotten good at it. I just think some girls are better than others. I'm not a top girl. I'm more submissive.

[Rhop101]

I know when my gf and I are having dry sex it's usually better if I'm on top instead of her because I'm the one making the motion and when I'm on top I grab the head of the bed, but when she's on top nothing to really grab onto haha.

Hopefully you find a way to make it work for you

[flowerchild32273]

yea i suck at being on top too. i like it more when he's in charge =P