Does anyone else think this?

[rhapsody]

I find this whole subject so embarrassing but, basically my boyfriend really loves having his nipples licked, sucked, whatever and I hate it.

I mean I HATE it.

It is bad enough when he does it to me because all I can think about is the biological use of nipples. I hope that makes sense to everyone because I really don't want to have to say it any more clearly than that as it actually makes me feel sick.
Every time we have sex he tries to get me to do it. If I don't then it ruins the sex for him, if I do then it ruins it for me.
I don't know why I'm so repulsed by this when i'm generally up for much kinkier stuff.

Please tell me I'm not alone in this. Or if you have any advice as to how I can get over it that would be really great to. thanks.

[TheLittleNinja]

Hey, Your not alone! I'm personally indifferent to it on myself, it doesn't do anything for me particularly, but I dont hate it.
However, I would be super repulsed if my boyfriend asked me to suck his nipples that would repulse me!

[Daydreamer]

I personally like it when it's done to me... But if my boyfriend asked me to do that to him? That would freak me out and I really wouldn't want to do it.

[rhapsody]

Thank god! I'm so glad I'm not the only one. He seems to just expect it so there must be tons of women out there who are doing it. I need to find a way to get over it because I want to make him happy. every time I feel like I'm going to throw up. I don't want to say anything because we have been having a lot of sex-related arguments recently and its affecting our relationship.

[TheLittleNinja]

Originally Posted by rhapsody

Thank god! I'm so glad I'm not the only one. He seems to just expect it so there must be tons of women out there who are doing it. I need to find a way to get over it because I want to make him happy. every time I feel like I'm going to throw up. I don't want to say anything because we have been having a lot of sex-related arguments recently and its affecting our relationship.

Hmm - I was going to suggest talking to him about it - but maybe not quite yet if you feel it will cause an argument. I don't know if it feels the same, or if he would like it, but could you try playing with his nipples with your fingers? Just an idea, and certainly kissing down the belly is a good turn on. Maybe these put together could substitute it?

[rhapsody]

I thought of a similar thing. But when I try only kissing around his stomach and the middle of his chest (which, incidentally, really turns me on because he has such a good body) he looks kind of bored. I think he equates it with passion. Like I said, he seems to think its a usual part of sex and that if I'm not doing it its because I'm not really interested.

[Beetlejuice]

i feel weird now the other da i wasnt up for him doing thigns to me so we were laying on the sofa and i was stroking his chest and kissing his neck and chest and licking his neck and biting his neck but also sucking and kissing his nipples, he enjoyed it so much he came and the next morning told me it was amazing. but the thing is i really really enjoyed doing it to him, i love being able to make him feel liek that. he was laying on the sofa breathing heavily and shivering, it was amaing.

i feel weird because most of you seem to be repulsed by sucking a guys nipples, i kinda liked it :L but i dont like the thought of giving him a bj but thats because im kinda scared of him coming in my mouth :L girls seem to be more fine with sucking a guy off then sucking thier nipples. wanna explain that to me please? im honestly confused

[darkinnocenteyes]

awww man this is totally not fair... I love to do this and I want to... but my boyfriend hates it. U lucky people... I have to beg him.