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View Poll Results: Would you have anal sex?
Heck yes 27 25.71%
I'm uncertain 26 24.76%
I would only if my partner REALLY wanted me to 16 15.24%
Absolutely not 36 34.29%
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Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 03:00 AM

Yes or no, or somewhere in-between on the issue? What are your opinions on it if you have tried it, or what do you imagine it is like? Why would you or wouldn't you do it? Girls: would you be more likely to try it if you thought or knew you could orgasm from it? Guys: Would you like it better if you knew your partner would really enjoy it? Or does it just squick you entirely?


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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 05:42 AM

Absolutely not. The idea of it really grosses me out.


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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 05:43 AM

I have never done it and don't plan on it. The thought of it makes me sick.


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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 06:19 AM

I think it's weird and I don't even like people touching my butt, but I think I would probably be willing to try it. I mean, you never know, right?


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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 07:24 AM

Definitely not! Yucky!



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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 12:33 PM

My ex and I sort of tried to and it didn't really work :/ I think we needed more, um, preparation beforehand that he probably wouldn't have been mature enough to deal with and which would have made me uncomfortable...


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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 02:25 PM

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Absolutely not. The idea of it really grosses me out.
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I have never done it and don't plan on it. The thought of it makes me sick.
Same as all of these. I am not into it anyways because the idea is nasty imo.
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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 02:59 PM

Err, no I almost certainly wouldn't do it. I'm not really into that kind of thing.


   
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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 03:40 PM

Well, me and my ex tried it and it didn't go very well. I always said I would never do it, but my boyfriend wants to try it. So, I guess I'm going to give it a try. If I don't like it, I'm going to make him stop. I heard anal sex was gross and painful, but I never had any experience with anal sex. So, I guess it won't hurt to give it a try...


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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 03:44 PM

I wouldn't do it. I don't see why anyone would find it pleasant.
   
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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 04:05 PM

I don't like the idea at all :|



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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 04:11 PM

Not into the idea. I think it would be terribly uncomfortable and if not properly prepared for, incredibly painful. Luckily my boyfriend isn't keen on the idea either.
   
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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 04:24 PM

Well, while the idea doesn't strike me as very pleasant, I wouldn't want to dismiss it completely. So I voted 'I'm uncertain.' It might be something I try after I've been in a committed relationship for some time, but I'm not completely decided. Of course, it would depend on my partner's desire as well.

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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 09:26 PM

....the thought of it horrifies me.
   
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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 10:48 PM

Just no........


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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 10:54 PM

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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 10:54 PM

I couldn't. It just freaks me out waaaay too much




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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 10:55 PM

I am interested in trying it just to 'experiment' I guess but I don't know if I would like it. I also would have to be in a really trusted and committed relationship before even attempting it. Sex is already really personal but to me Anal sex takes it to another level because all the things that are involved. Like, if something went wrong and it turned kind of nasty...I wouldn't be able to handle it if it weren't with someone I was really comfortable with.

I do happen to change my mind on this issue though. Sometimes I am like 'heck yes I will definitely try it' and other times I think 'hell no!' and most of the times I am just like 'we will see.'

My partner might not be too keen on the idea and well yeah there are a lot of reasons it might never happen but I wouldn't say no with absolute conviction.


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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 11:34 PM

No no no!!


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Re: Anal sex - August 13th 2010, 11:45 PM

I wouldn't unless the person I was with wanted to.
   
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Re: Anal sex - August 14th 2010, 12:13 AM

I really don't think I could, the idea is just disgusting and seems kind of unnatural to me.
That being said, I've never really had a sexual relationship with someone I could *be* with (as in physically see and touch and hug etc.) so I don't know, it might change, though I'm hoping it doesn't.


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Re: Anal sex - August 14th 2010, 03:09 AM

Way I see it, don't knock it until you've tried it.
   
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Re: Anal sex - August 14th 2010, 03:14 AM

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Re: Anal sex - August 14th 2010, 03:36 AM

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Re: Anal sex - August 14th 2010, 03:07 PM

Having read through these replies, 2 maybe 3 have actually tried it, and yet everyone else is dismissing it. As said before, I wouldn't knock it before you've actually tried it.


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Re: Anal sex - August 14th 2010, 03:17 PM

No thanks! :O I'd say it wud hurt, alot!


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Re: Anal sex - August 14th 2010, 04:16 PM

I am actually really surprised at the number of people against it, though I guess I can't say I blame anybody. Interesting, though.


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Re: Anal sex - August 14th 2010, 04:33 PM

My bf is desperate to try it and me not so much.
We did kind of try with anal beads but he got one in me and left it for a bit and I ended up crying it was so painful, so I'm not sure I'd try it again





   
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Re: Anal sex - August 14th 2010, 04:37 PM

I can honestly say. I've tried it didnt like it never again will I do it I will leave that to my brother who enjoys it. whatever gets you off Its just not for me.
   
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Re: Anal sex - August 15th 2010, 04:42 PM

I went with absoultly not. I did it with my ex-bf who guilted me into let him do it. I didn't like it.
   
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Re: Anal sex - August 15th 2010, 04:52 PM

Hm, I don't know. I would probably most likely try. But I can't promise I'd like the idea of it... especially if he's not that into it.
   
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Re: Anal sex - August 15th 2010, 09:54 PM

Absolutely not. It would be wayyyy too awkward.


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Re: Anal sex - August 16th 2010, 06:13 PM

It completely disgusted me, made me feel sick, I thought it would hurt and smell and be generally gross.....

until I tried it. And now I like it.

Yet again, do not knock something until you've given it a go, you might (like I was) be pleasantly surprised!


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Re: Anal sex - August 16th 2010, 06:37 PM

I have, I quite liked it
If you do it right it shouldn't hurt too much, so it's only the gross factor people need to overcome


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Re: Anal sex - August 16th 2010, 06:48 PM

I dont think that I could do this..the idea scares me
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Re: Anal sex - August 16th 2010, 06:51 PM

i've never tried it. can't say it's something that appeals but i wouldn't write off trying it in the future..


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Re: Anal sex - August 16th 2010, 06:52 PM

I've tried it...and I quite liked it....Wouldnt say I'm a huge fan but yes, its not bad! It shouldnt hurt too much if you're properly prepared and you take it easy...





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Re: Anal sex - August 17th 2010, 12:59 AM

I've tried it and both myself and my girlfriend like it alot. She actually orgasms far more easily from anal sex comparative to vaginal sex although I don't know why this would be. As for the pain, that shouldn't really be an issue if you're doing it right, there are multiple ways to ease the likelyhood of pain. Similarly you can minimise the chance of anything gross happening by taking some very simple hygeine steps beforehand.

Anal sex is an issue of do it right or don't do it at all. If you've got a boyfriend who thinks he can just shove it up there like you see in porn films then it's definitely going to hurt.
   
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Re: Anal sex - August 17th 2010, 01:38 PM

No. Just .... no. :|




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Re: Anal sex - August 17th 2010, 02:37 PM

Mhhmm..Sounds good!
   
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