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Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 10:34 AM

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So, I was wondering...

Guys: Do you kiss a girl after she gives you oral and swallows?

Girls: Would you be offended if a guy didn't kiss you after you gave him oral?

The first time I gave my boyfriend a bj, he was a little reluctant to kiss me afterwards, but he did anyway. Now he has no problem with it.
   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 10:40 AM

The first time I've ever had oral, she made out with me after and I didn't even think anything of it until she asked if it was ok.

Things got pretty hot and in the moment to think. I guess this is why people lick each others assholes or like to get peed on.
   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 11:37 AM

Nah, I wouldn't be offended. I can understand why a lot of people wouldn't like it.


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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 11:53 AM

I wouldn't be offended but it haven't been in a situation where I've been asked not to kiss someone after.
   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 11:55 AM

I don't have a problem with it. I mean, why would you expect someone to taste you when you won't go near you? Makes no sense to me..
   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 12:42 PM

I think it's rude, yeah. It's okay for me to go down there and do that, but you can't kiss me afterward?
   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 02:37 PM

I'm just sensitive about some things in sex. I mean, it'd be different if he spoke to me about it. But I probably would get a little offended. It would probably make me reluctant to let him do that in my mouth xD. That would be the deal.


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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 06:06 PM

Haha. I made my ex kiss me after. I'm like "I just sucked you off, you can at least give me a lil' kiss. " Plus, his expression was too priceless; maybe I'm mean like that. But it became a bit of a joke. He'd kiss me afterward and in unison, we'd say "Mmm, cum lips!"
   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 07:13 PM

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Haha. I made my ex kiss me after. I'm like "I just sucked you off, you can at least give me a lil' kiss. " ......
haha me too !! ..like he made me do it soooo kiss me buster and have a tast of yourself !!!!

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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 07:35 PM

Frankly, if he wants me to suck him off, he can kiss me afterwards. (He's got no problem with it anyway) I really like to kiss him after he's licked *me*, too...
   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 07:37 PM

Me and my boyfriend kiss each other after oral both ways


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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 07:56 PM

Um first of all I personally believe ur a lil 2 young 2 consider urself with these things in the first place. But um I wudnt b offened if a guy idnt wanna kiss me if he came in my mouth however if he didn't then that's a diff story. Just like I wudnt kiss a guy if I came in his moouth.... Sum ppl don't deal well with their own boily fluids I gues but it varies frm person 2 person.... P.s always use a condom when having sex
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 08:00 PM

Yeah I probably would be a bit offended if a guy didn't want to kiss me afterwards. It's okay if a female puts your body part in her mouth, but yet you freak out about kissing her afterwards because you don't want to seem gay.


   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 08:15 PM

Deliberate snowballing isn't cool, but if she's swallowed? Sure, I'd kiss her. I might be a bit offended if she wouldn't kiss me after I'd gone down on her. Not offended enough to make a thing out of it, though.



   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 08:23 PM

No problem. When I have sex I realize It includes acts like that. I'm not a prude =P


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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 09:52 PM

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But condoms are crap D=

And I've kissed my girlfriend after the act as well, so it apparently doesn't bother me =p
   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 09:57 PM

Yeah, my boyfriend and I kiss after for both of us, and neither of us has a problem with it, I would be offended if a guy refused to kiss me after I think.


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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 10:00 PM

Condoms prevent pregnancy and stds. And like I said it varies from person 2 person. Idk y I hav a prob with those kinds of bodily fluids evn my own. Guess I'm just weird like that but not prude
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 10:10 PM

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Condoms prevent pregnancy and stds. And like I said it varies from person 2 person. Idk y I hav a prob with those kinds of bodily fluids evn my own. Guess I'm just weird like that but not prude
The pill prevents pregnancy as do various other form of contraceptive and commitment prevents STD's (providing you didn't already have one)
   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 10:39 PM

Guys, please stay on topic. This isn't a thread about whether people are old enough to talk about these things or about contraception. But feel free to start another thread to discuss those topics, if you like.

I would be pretty offended if my partner didn't want to kiss me afterwards. It's kind of an unfair double-standard.



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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 24th 2010, 10:49 PM

I've never actually considered not kissing afterwards
So... I don't think I'd be as much offended as I would be completely thrown off my guard, haha... a bit offended, but mostly it'd just be a pretty awkward moment.


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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 25th 2010, 01:16 AM

I wouldn't be offended if a guy wouldn't kiss me after head, I know some boys are funny about tasting their cum etc. but I have nooo problem with kissing a boy after he's licked me out... weird... xx


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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 25th 2010, 01:32 AM

I wouldn't be offended at all
   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 25th 2010, 03:49 AM

Everyone has things they are uncomfortable with and I would be willing to talk to my future partner about this. If it made him uncomfortable I would respect that. I think I might be a little offended by it because my mind set would be "I am pleasuring him but he doesn't want to kiss me?'' But, all in all if my future partner was really uncomfortable with it I would respect it.


   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 25th 2010, 03:51 AM

Honestly, neither of us like kissing after oral. If we go straight from oral to sex, we'll kiss during the sex, but if it's just oral we'll chew gum or brush our teeth first. I don't like to taste myself on him, so I can understand that he'd feel the same.


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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 25th 2010, 12:34 PM

As others have said, I wouldn't have any kind of problem with that, I'd be rather self-conscious of having such blatant double-standards and stuff.
*shrugs* It's just a part of things really, I honestly don't see what there is to be all 'ew' about it, other than pre-conceptions that society fosters really.




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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 25th 2010, 12:54 PM

I don't have a problem with it and I've done it.

I agree with what someone said, how can you expect someone to taste you if you won't yourself?
   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 25th 2010, 06:37 PM

I dont think Id be offended.. I mean after all 'you just had your mouth there and now you want to touch my mouth with it..'

I dont know.. Kinda nasty when you think about it..


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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 25th 2010, 06:45 PM

my boyfriend always insists of kissing me after i give him a bj and swallow. just a small sweet kiss and then i usually drink something before we makeout lols i was unsure the first time i did this because i wasnt sure what he would want to but he insists now lolz

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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 25th 2010, 10:09 PM

Hehe...I'm a cheater

I'm bisexual anyways and love the taste of it. I've actually licked it off her body once

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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 26th 2010, 01:16 AM

I wouldn't be offended, but I would think that it's pretty stupid. I mean, it's your own body fluids. I think it's silly to have an aversion to something completely harmless that your body produces, and even more silly to let that keep you from kissing your partner.


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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 26th 2010, 12:18 PM

After my first time giving him oral I thought he'd not want to kiss me till I'd rinsed my mouth so I got up to go and get some water. He looked at me and asked me where I was going and if I'd be 'sweet enough to come close so he could kiss that beautiful mouth'.
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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 26th 2010, 09:04 PM

I wouldn't be offended, I'd just think that he was a bit pathetic (no offence to any lads that don't kiss after oral ) but yeah, I've kissed people after they've gone down on me, so I don't see the problem if it's the other way round.

Thankfully though, this has never happened, i've always kissed after so so far so good


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Re: Kissing after oral? - October 26th 2010, 09:56 PM

I wouldn't be offended, but I would think he was a little immature.

Though its polite to drink some water or something first so the guy doesn't taste himself too strongly. I would expect the same consideration in return
   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - November 8th 2010, 10:16 PM

i don't think i would like if he asked me not to kiss him... i mean, if i just went down on him, then why can't he have his own taste too?
   
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Re: Kissing after oral? - November 9th 2010, 01:15 AM

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