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Penis size. - December 6th 2010, 04:36 AM

Well I'm 16 years old.

How do I know what the right size for my penis is?
   
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Re: Penis size. - December 6th 2010, 04:48 AM

Are you talking about condom size or the actual size of your penis?
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Re: Penis size. - December 6th 2010, 04:57 AM

Make sure your erection is full parallel to the floor when standing up. You should start when the ruler is barely touching the surface of your skin next to your manhood. Don't jam it in your skin to get extra inches. Keep in mind that the average white male is 5.5 inches.



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Re: Penis size. - December 6th 2010, 09:14 AM

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Make sure your erection is full parallel to the floor when standing up. You should start when the ruler is barely touching the surface of your skin next to your manhood. Don't jam it in your skin to get extra inches. Keep in mind that the average white male is 5.5 inches.
Hi James!!

I hope you're having a dandy day.

Brandon is RIGHT - EXCEPT for the part about 'barely touching the surface of your skin'. In FACT - you SHOULD press the ruler in GENTLY until it is stopped by your pubic bone. [That's the bone you will feel when you push in on the area covered by your pubic hairs] On a skinny and/or 'in-shape' guy - doing that won't make much of a difference. But on a guy who is carrying extra weight - the difference can sometimes be quite significant. This is why it's best to suggest measuring from that pubic bone.

As for your question.....

Now that you know what average is [And that's the 'average' for an ADULT - which would mean that the 'average' 16 year old would have a penis smaller than that] you must always keep in mind that 'average size' is NOT the same thing as 'minimum requirement'. MILLIONS OF GUYS in this world have erect penises that are smaller - and sometimes a LOT smaller - than the 'average size'. And many [IF not most] of those guys are enjoying sex. [And so are the people that they are having sex with] Besides - the most important sex organ you have is NOT your penis - it's your brain AND your heart.

It's too bad we can't measure the HEART - THEN we could tell for sure how big a man REALLY is.

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Re: Penis size. - December 6th 2010, 05:39 PM

Average is just a number. Like Craig said, there are alot of guys out there with alot of penises alot of sizes. It doesn't really matter exactly what the size of your penis is, it's the size of your heart that matters. If a girl is making fun of your because of the size of your penis, then she doesn't deserve you.

And to be honest, most woman won't. I have an average size, and when I told my fiancee that, she was surprised and thought I was above average So no worries mate, you will still have a full and statisfying sex life soon enough.


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Re: Penis size. - December 6th 2010, 06:33 PM

Any size is the right size. There's no set size that you should be at a certain age. All men differ in that department, and all is perfectly fine.

The average is about 5 inches, though. But even if you're bigger or smaller than that, you shouldn't worry.


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Re: Penis size. - December 19th 2010, 08:04 AM

if its healthy and looks like it should be there and it works, then ur good. but size doesnt matter in sex, if ur worried about a girl thinking its too big or small or not normal, as long as its healthy
   
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Re: Penis size. - December 19th 2010, 08:09 AM

Most girls I know think size doesn't matter, and I agree. As long as you use it right, they won't notice.

But the average size itself is any size you have, but it shouldn't intimidate you if it's smaller that five inches. It's an organ you have to live with, so try and get used to it. xD We all are self-conscious.


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Re: Penis size. - December 28th 2010, 10:40 AM

Don't worry about it seriously. most girls really dont care that much, in less you make a big deal out of it.
   
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Re: Penis size. - December 28th 2010, 04:19 PM

It all depends on age. Teenagers are usually 4 inches or around there. Adults are 5+. If you aren't that, don't stress. Girls really don't care. Most girls are more self conscious (sp?) about themselves.


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Re: Penis size. - December 28th 2010, 05:56 PM

Well, yeah the average male's is 5.5
But you really have nothing to worry about if you dont make it.
Its a full grown man, which means you still have about 4/5 years to accomplish that.
Also, the female vagina is usually only about 4 inches, and her G-spot i believe, is 2 inches in?
Really she expands to suit your member

So, that being said, its not how BIG you are,
Its how you use your hands, your body and your mind.
And also remember, foreplay is KEY


But anyways, its not like a girl is gonna analyse your guy or get down there with a ruler.
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Re: Penis size. - December 28th 2010, 09:22 PM

You can't increase your penis size, despite what advertisements will claim. The right size is whatever you have.



   
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Re: Penis size. - January 6th 2011, 02:07 PM

It's not about how deep ya go fishin' it's how ya wiggle your worm =)
   
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Re: Penis size. - January 7th 2011, 03:58 AM

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I'd like to say, this made me laugh xD

And also, you will probably find that most girls won't even want a 5+ inch one. But like others have said, a girl whos right for you, won't care what size your penis is


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Re: Penis size. - January 7th 2011, 10:38 AM

I thought i'd ask this in this thread since I have posted in this already about the topic.. but is 7 1/4 inches considered average or big?
   
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Re: Penis size. - January 8th 2011, 02:27 AM

the average penis size is between 5 to 6 inches, however the penis is not fully developed until the early twenties of your life time. also to your own eye your penis looks smaller than it actually is.
   
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Re: Penis size. - January 8th 2011, 03:05 AM

It doesn't matter what size "it" is aslong as it works, looks healthy then "its" considered fine

Most girls like a average sized penis over a larger penis, because bigger ones hurt!!





   
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Re: Penis size. - January 8th 2011, 03:08 AM

Comedian Bo Burnham once said "The average penis length is 5 and a half inches. The average penis length of a person who googles average penis length is 3 and a half inches."
A lotttttttttttttttttttt of people google "average penis length" so I hypothesize that there's just like, a couple hundred guys out there with a third leg increasing the average.

But, all joking aside, don't worry about it. Your penis can't really be "too small" or "too big", because it's yours, it's just right. I was about to connect that to Goldilocks and the Three Bears but somehow that seemed...odd...

Keep in mind a few things though:
1.) you're still growing.
2.) our bodies look much different to us when we look down than they do to others. For instance, ever morning I look down at my stomach and think that I'm chubby; I look in the mirror and realize I'm not. Yet I can look down at my penis and think, this looks small. Look in the mirror, and it's not small (nor big), it just...is.
3.) You'll enjoy sex either way, and so will she. In fact, it's arguable that a large penis is more difficult to have sex with.

Anyway, point is this.
Large, small, wide, thin, your penis is your penis; there's no way to fix it because it isn't broken, no way to change it because it's certainly in no need of changing.


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Re: Penis size. - January 8th 2011, 10:29 AM

I'm not extremely well-endowed, but I still make my girlfriend completely satisfied. In-fact, she says she probably couldn't take much more if she wanted to (and, sparing myself the embarassment, it's not that big). Chin up, use it right and keep it tight.

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Re: Penis size. - January 9th 2011, 04:57 PM

At 16 you havent even fully developed yet, so it still has time to grow
There isn't a 'right size' don't worry!
I've been with quite a few different boys all with different sizes, and this didn't make a difference to me at all.

If this question is in reference to sex just remember: It's not how big the ship is, it's how much motion there is in the ocean Basically, it's how you use your penis. I know that there can be people who are way above average size, but are worse in bed than people with people under the average size!


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Re: Penis size. - January 23rd 2011, 03:41 PM

dont worry dude..all u need to fuck a highschool girl is about 5 inches..if a girl laughs at you because its any smaler..shes a whore (or has fucked alot) most high school girls shouldnt be able to handle a 7-8 inch cock (balls deep). lol u know? and if they can...shes prolly a hoe
   
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Re: Penis size. - January 23rd 2011, 03:55 PM

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dont worry dude..all u need to fuck a highschool girl is about 5 inches..if a girl laughs at you because its any smaler..shes a whore (or has fucked alot) most high school girls shouldnt be able to handle a 7-8 inch cock (balls deep). lol u know? and if they can...shes prolly a hoe
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Re: Penis size. - January 23rd 2011, 04:01 PM

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dont worry dude..all u need to fuck a highschool girl is about 5 inches..if a girl laughs at you because its any smaler..shes a whore (or has fucked alot) most high school girls shouldnt be able to handle a 7-8 inch cock (balls deep). lol u know? and if they can...shes prolly a hoe
Are you suggesting that the vagina gets deeper with age?

I really, really don't think there's that much difference between a high school girl's vagina and someone who is, say... in their 20's. In my experience, there isn't really much difference as far as... size? goes. You either can handle it or you can't. I'm not sure that age has much to do with it.


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Re: Penis size. - January 23rd 2011, 04:51 PM

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Re: Penis size. - January 24th 2011, 02:47 AM

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dont worry dude..all u need to fuck a highschool girl is about 5 inches..if a girl laughs at you because its any smaler..shes a whore (or has fucked alot) most high school girls shouldnt be able to handle a 7-8 inch cock (balls deep). lol u know? and if they can...shes prolly a hoe

You clearly have no idea what you're talking about. The vagina doesn't get 'moulded' by repeated intercourse, it stretches to accommodate and then goes back to what it was. If it didn't it'd start to sag, which it obviously doesn't. Yet more people giving credence to ridiculous urban myths .

As was said before, they can either handle it or they can't. =/.




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Re: Penis size. - January 24th 2011, 03:47 AM

I'm a chick and big dicks kinda freak me out lol. Trying to please her will make up for any difference. lol


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Re: Penis size. - January 24th 2011, 04:09 AM

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For a 16-year-old the average penis size is:
Length
  • Around 2.5'' to 4'' flaccid (non erect)
  • Before puberty, between 2'' and 4'' (erect) (5 - 10 cm).
  • During your puberty growth spurt, maybe 4'' - 6'' (10 - 15 cm).
  • It will keep growing through puberty till you are 19 to 20-years-old.
That being said, penis size is the least of most prospective partners' worries. The way you act is much more important than the size of body parts



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Re: Penis size. - January 26th 2011, 03:09 PM

I would like to add that most girls don't like massive penises.

The thought of an 8 inch penis is, frankly, terrifying!

My boyfriend is about 6-7" and he's too big for me. The first few times we had sex were extremely painful and, if we haven't done it in a while, it goes back to being very painful.

So yeah, bigger is not better.


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