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Not feeling it!! - March 20th 2011, 07:24 PM

Hey everyone. I need some advice. Ive had 3 boyfriends(including the one now) and when i was with them sexually i was never satisfied. I could never get that feeling. I only had an orgasm towards oral sex but intercourse never felt good, just really weird. Can anyone give me advice on what to do or how to change it up because my current bf birthday is coming up and weve been going out on and off for 2 years and i wanna make this one a special one for him.. Please help me out!!!
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Re: Not feeling it!! - March 20th 2011, 07:33 PM

Hey There!

Not many girls can orgasm through plain and simple intercourse! Many still need stimulation in other areas - such as the clit.

Perhaps you should think about some different positions you could try out that would allow you to stimulate these other areas of your body?

Or, would you prefer to just give/receive oral for your boyfriends birthday?

You could also think about spicing it up with a gorgeous/sexy outfit, or something that will tease him such as incorporating chocolate or strawberries into the mix of events

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Re: Not feeling it!! - March 20th 2011, 07:42 PM

I've heard that most women can't orgasm from intercourse, but if it doesn't feel good at all I would say to try different positions. If he enters you from behind he's more likely to hit your G-spot, so maybe doggy style or something similar could help you get that feeling.

Make sure you are really in the mood when doing sexual things as I find the sensations always more intense when I'm really turned on. Do you usually have lots of foreplay? If not then that is something that you can both work on to make you feel good if sex doesn't really do it for you.

Also, you could try different things when masturbating to find out what feels best for you. Then teach him how to do it

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Re: Not feeling it!! - March 29th 2011, 06:54 PM

Hey. pretty much combine what the two others said. Try making sure your really turned on before you start, watch a romantic film have some foreplay etc. Try different positions. Try some sex toys like sex dice or handcuffs. Experiment with kinky things. It could be the guys your with, mabye they are getting all the pleasure, experiment and se what you enjoy so you can have a compromise. Try foods, like chocolate and lick it off that kinda thing. <3

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