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Too penis focused?? - May 24th 2011, 06:06 PM

When you fool around with a guy how much of your attention do you focus on his penis versus the rest of his body? Not including kissing on the mouth? I find I am 100% penis focused lol. Is that weird?
   
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Re: Too penis focused?? - May 24th 2011, 06:12 PM

Not really, everyone has different preferences. Maybe ask him what he likes and go from there.



   
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Re: Too penis focused?? - May 24th 2011, 06:29 PM

Im the same!! Maybeeee ask him where/what he likes touched/kissed, run your hands up and down his torso and kiss his stomach and work your way down/ or up
   
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Re: Too penis focused?? - May 24th 2011, 06:46 PM

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Im the same!! Maybeeee ask him where/what he likes touched/kissed, run your hands up and down his torso and kiss his stomach and work your way down/ or up
I do sometimes run my hand up a guys leg before unzipping him.
   
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Re: Too penis focused?? - May 24th 2011, 07:20 PM

You should talk to him about it, ask him what he likes and take it from there but at the same time, everyone is different so where as you may do that, someone else might do the complete opposite.
   
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Re: Too penis focused?? - May 24th 2011, 07:47 PM

Hey Emily,

I feel the same way as you sometimes. My boyfriend loves oral sex, especially receiving it, and I love to oblige his wishes. Half the time, I'm more focused on getting the job done, rather than what I know he likes. If your with a specific person, ask him what he likes vs. what he doesn't like. Lots of guys I know love when you start at their necks and/or faces and make your way downtown . Inner thighs do the job too!











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Re: Too penis focused?? - May 24th 2011, 07:55 PM

The rest of a guys body seems really boring when his penis is exposed. Lol
   
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Re: Too penis focused?? - May 24th 2011, 08:01 PM

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The rest of a guys body seems really boring when his penis is exposed. Lol
This is very understandable, but you need to focus on other things they like. Otherwise, he may think you are only with him because of his penis, or he might think your sexual encounters are becoming boring. Switch things up to make sure that doesn't happen.











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Re: Too penis focused?? - May 24th 2011, 08:02 PM

I focus a lot of attention on a guy's penis, but I do spend time on other areas of the body as well. They can elicit desirable responses, too, and that's really what I am after.


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Re: Too penis focused?? - May 24th 2011, 08:11 PM

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This is very understandable, but you need to focus on other things they like. Otherwise, he may think you are only with him because of his penis, or he might think your sexual encounters are becoming boring. Switch things up to make sure that doesn't happen.
I don't actually have a boyfriend, so my encounters tend to be casual. Usually little is exposed, I unzip the guy, pull it out, and play with it. Depending on where I am I end it with pretty intensive jerking off.
   
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Re: Too penis focused?? - May 25th 2011, 03:50 PM

I don't think it matters, everyone is different and likes different things. There's probably no complaints from him about it anyway.




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