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Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 05:26 AM

Well i went to his house today, and we were in his room and started makin out. But we knew we couldnt do anything really cause well... Im on my period. Yet still we kinda sorta almost did. I was on top grinding pretty much. Then he flipped me and started rubbin it against me.. But we didnt really do anything cause we couldnt. Is that normal?



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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 05:28 AM

You CAN have sex on your period, you know. There's no law against it.

I read this as: I was making out with my boyfriend, and then we almost had sex. But then we didn't. Is that normal?

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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 06:09 AM

That happens far too often to me. I hope you didn't give him blue balls.


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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 06:49 AM

My boyfriend and I have done this.
I believe it's normal.
And yes, you can have sex on your period. But I would never do it. Personally. xD



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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 07:08 AM

Haha this is totally normal. I've done this plenty of times when I can't have sex. & as others have said, yes, you can have sex on your period. But I've found from personal experience it's not really recommended. Besides the mess it can cause, I've found that the, ya know, "stuff" can be kinda like an anti-lube & it's uncomfortable.
   
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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 12:11 PM

Yep, normaaaality. And sex can be had on your period you know ~ it can be fun because you're a little more extra-sensitive at that time.


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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 04:16 PM

Toooootally normal.
Like evvvveryone else has said, you CAN have sex on your period, which is good because you're more sensitive, but bad because it can make a bit of a mess :/
Oh, and you CAN get pregnant on your period if you're unprotected. Just be careful.
   
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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 06:05 PM

It's completely normal. And, for the record, sex on your period is perfectly great, if you're comfortable with it.


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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 06:06 PM

Haha, I know I could. I just think it's gross. Plus, it would've been our first time and I didn't want our first time, like that.



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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 06:07 PM

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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 07:17 PM

This is completely normal so do not worry about it.
Sex on your period is up to the couple, whatever you feel comfortable with.
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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 09:33 PM

Hey, guys,
All of you keep repeating that 'you can have sex during your period'. What exactly do you mean? Because, for me personally, the only way to have sex during the first days of my period (on the last 3-4 it's easy, we just need to be quick and nor do it standing up :P ) is to leave the tampon in and have anal sex So what do you do exactly?
And about Ciara's question: it's the most natural step in a relationship, even if you aren't having your period. I would recommend that you always make out almost to the point of 'doing it for real' so that you know if you really enjoy being physical with this person. And! Making him (and yourself) wait is the best part
   
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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 09:46 PM

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Hey, guys,
All of you keep repeating that 'you can have sex during your period'. What exactly do you mean? Because, for me personally, the only way to have sex during the first days of my period (on the last 3-4 it's easy, we just need to be quick and nor do it standing up :P ) is to leave the tampon in and have anal sex So what do you do exactly?
And about Ciara's question: it's the most natural step in a relationship, even if you aren't having your period. I would recommend that you always make out almost to the point of 'doing it for real' so that you know if you really enjoy being physical with this person. And! Making him (and yourself) wait is the best part
The way you described is just one of the ways you can have sex on you're period. However, if both parties want too, you can remove the tampon and have vaginal sex while on you're period. Of course, it can be messy and protection should be used, but vaginal sex on your period isn't impossible.











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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 10:27 PM

The whole grinding thing..is totally normal. Seriously, you wouldn't have even had to have sex to grind and all of that, it's just fun. Most people I know do that whenever they make out..which I find kind of..different but whatever! Hahaha.

I totally understand not wanting your first time to be while you were on your period.. I would not want that either! Haha (:
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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 8th 2011, 11:41 PM

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Hey, guys,
All of you keep repeating that 'you can have sex during your period'. What exactly do you mean? Because, for me personally, the only way to have sex during the first days of my period (on the last 3-4 it's easy, we just need to be quick and nor do it standing up :P ) is to leave the tampon in and have anal sex So what do you do exactly?
And about Ciara's question: it's the most natural step in a relationship, even if you aren't having your period. I would recommend that you always make out almost to the point of 'doing it for real' so that you know if you really enjoy being physical with this person. And! Making him (and yourself) wait is the best part
My boyfriend & I sometimes do anal sex or we'll have regular sex. For regular sex, I wear a tampon up until the point we'll be having sex, which makes it less messy. We keep it quick & we put a towel under us (although the last couple of times, it really wasn't messy). Afterwards we make sure we both clean up well, especially him.
   
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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 9th 2011, 02:23 PM

People do this all the time even when they've had sex before. It's fun. It feels good. It's normal.



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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 9th 2011, 03:54 PM

I don't see why people are so astonished by the fact that you can have sex on your period. Yeah I suppose for some it might be a little gross and I personally wouldn't do it, but just because you're bleeding somewhere doesn't mean you can't have sex



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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 9th 2011, 04:45 PM

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I don't see why people are so astonished by the fact that you can have sex on your period. Yeah I suppose for some it might be a little gross and I personally wouldn't do it, but just because you're bleeding somewhere doesn't mean you can't have sex
This.

The only time I'd mind it is if it were on the day of my heaviest flow. Other than that, my period is when I'm most sensitive so I imagine period sex would be awesome if I could make it beyond feeling self-conscious. And I'm glad my current partner isn't squicked out by the idea of it.

To the OP, yes, this is normal. It's one of my favourite things to do, lol. As someone else said, it feels good. A lot of people do it, and a lot of people have sex on their periods, too.


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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 9th 2011, 05:16 PM

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This.

The only time I'd mind it is if it were on the day of my heaviest flow. Other than that, my period is when I'm most sensitive so I imagine period sex would be awesome if I could make it beyond feeling self-conscious. And I'm glad my current partner isn't squicked out by the idea of it.

To the OP, yes, this is normal. It's one of my favourite things to do, lol. As someone else said, it feels good. A lot of people do it, and a lot of people have sex on their periods, too.

I've heard that sex helps with cramps too.



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I've heard that sex helps with cramps too.
Haha. That's what my boyfriend said (he was the first I'd heard it from!). He joked about it being a win-win situation. Only I don't get cramps.


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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 10th 2011, 02:49 AM

If you use tampons on your period, you might get lucky and have about an hour after you remove one in which there's absolutely no blood, depending on your flow.
   
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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 10th 2011, 07:42 AM

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If you use tampons on your period, you might get lucky and have about an hour after you remove one in which there's absolutely no blood, depending on your flow.
Never got that lucky, me. I usually take it out just before intercourse and still, 15-20 minutes later there's a bit of blood. Nobody really minds, though.

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Re: Me and bf ALMOST had sex - August 12th 2011, 06:38 AM

I hate giving and receiving when it comes to oral..
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