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Fantasies about my best friend - August 14th 2011, 06:06 AM

So, I'm bisexual and I have a HUGE crush on my best friend, (I'll call her Ani for now). I got her really interested in this anime called Death Note and She told me a while back that she really like yaoi (boy boy love) and she realized she has a bondage fetish (like me). I'm well aware that I'm really submisive and now I constantly fantasize about her dominating me. And it's super awkward cuz I get really horny around her. And It's not like I sudden;y only like her cuz I want to be dominated, I still really like her, so that in itself is a problem (hahaha). But it's really annoying and sorta awkward cuz I'll start blushing she;ll look at me and be like "what?" and im just like "nothing" and she always acts like we're a couple and it's so hard to stop myself from telling her I like her. And we just went on an 8 hour rode trip and we were in the trunk (its a huge trunk don't worry hahaha) and I kept fantasizing about her and ended up getting super horny.
DO YOU KNOW HOW AWKWARD IT IS TO BE HORNY AS F*CK IN THE TRUNK OF A CAR WITH THE PERSON YOU'RE ALWAYS FANTASIZING ABOUT?!
it's very awkward hahaha. Anyway, i was sorta just hoping I'm not the only one who fantasizes about their bestie.
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Re: Fantasies about my best friend - August 14th 2011, 07:38 PM

You are not the only one. I have a crush on my best friend too. Sleep overs are hard because we sleep in the same bed and most of the time i end up cuddling with her.. so i feel ya.
   
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Re: Fantasies about my best friend - August 14th 2011, 09:28 PM

I've known people that have crushes on their friends.. It's never happened to me with a girl because I'm straight! Haha, but is your friend straight? There could be a way that you could just tell her how you feel without freaking her out maybe?
Anyways, what's happening to you sounds normal, and it sounds like you've done a good job of keeping it from getting awkward and things like that!
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Re: Fantasies about my best friend - August 14th 2011, 11:22 PM

Wow...actually, in this case, it's quite normal. See, not only is this person your bestiee, but someone you really like! So believe that this is something I'm sure a lot of ppl do. I did it, and now my bestiee is my boyfriend of a year and two months!! So, don't worry, this is normal in your case...
   
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Re: Fantasies about my best friend - August 14th 2011, 11:33 PM

Yeah, it is slightly awkward cuz we sleep in the same bed too. and she really doesn't know what she is, she figures she's bi-curious
   
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Re: Fantasies about my best friend - August 15th 2011, 01:53 AM

I wouldn't put too much thought behind it. I think most of us have had crushes on our best friends, male or female. If you want to know how she feels about you, I would talk to her about it and see what happens.











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Re: Fantasies about my best friend - August 17th 2011, 11:22 PM

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So, I'm bisexual and I have a HUGE crush on my best friend, (I'll call her Ani for now). I got her really interested in this anime called Death Note and She told me a while back that she really like yaoi (boy boy love) and she realized she has a bondage fetish (like me). I'm well aware that I'm really submisive and now I constantly fantasize about her dominating me. And it's super awkward cuz I get really horny around her. And It's not like I sudden;y only like her cuz I want to be dominated, I still really like her, so that in itself is a problem (hahaha). But it's really annoying and sorta awkward cuz I'll start blushing she;ll look at me and be like "what?" and im just like "nothing" and she always acts like we're a couple and it's so hard to stop myself from telling her I like her. And we just went on an 8 hour rode trip and we were in the trunk (its a huge trunk don't worry hahaha) and I kept fantasizing about her and ended up getting super horny.
DO YOU KNOW HOW AWKWARD IT IS TO BE HORNY AS F*CK IN THE TRUNK OF A CAR WITH THE PERSON YOU'RE ALWAYS FANTASIZING ABOUT?!
it's very awkward hahaha. Anyway, i was sorta just hoping I'm not the only one who fantasizes about their bestie.
Peace!
I know how that can be. I have a massive crush on one of my friends. I had yo distance myself a bit from her in the end. The problem was I always really wanted to kiss her, so badly. I know it is hard, just try and not be awkward.



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