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Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 14th 2011, 06:28 AM

Lately i really dont know what it is but i wanted to have sex like so badly
(ima virgin) like ive never done anything really sexuall in that manner
(IM NOT A LONER) but like is this normal to wanna do it so badly like does this happen to every one or do i have some type of SUPER HORMONES???


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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 14th 2011, 06:47 AM

LMAO, I'm not quite sure how bad your cravings are, but I know that I want to have sex... All of the time. So I'm going to say yes? Unless I have super hormones too.


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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 14th 2011, 09:16 AM

You're young, you're hormonal. The answer? Yes.
I would recommend masturbation, possibly buying a vibrator. It's a good idea for one who is not sexually active, but has these urges every once in a while. It's nothing to be ashamed of.


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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 14th 2011, 10:06 AM

I think every teenager/young adult has super hormones to be honest!! Nothing to worry about, you're quite normal and definitely not alone!


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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 14th 2011, 07:12 PM

I'm the same way so I wouldn't say it's abnormal. If you want to have sex so badly, try it. My advice: Try sex, if you're craving sex. Easier decision for girls, than it is for guys "Like myself, who is very unlikely to ever get laid again". Try it, if you don't like it, or it's not a big deal for you, then you will know what to do in future cases like this. Hope I helped a little
   
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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 14th 2011, 07:55 PM

It's totally normal. I happened to have a boyfriend when I went through this stage, therefore: me=no longer virgin. Haha

But on a serious note, don't rush things just because you're hormonal. That's how people end up doing regretful things. Make sure to take things at your own pace & that you're comfortable with anything you decide to do.
   
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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 14th 2011, 08:02 PM

It's normal. As suggested above, use toys or masturbation to help with the urges
   
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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 14th 2011, 09:24 PM

Normal, believe me.
Some girls get more horny around the time of their periods and things like that, either way, masturbation would probably help you in this situation!
   
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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 17th 2011, 02:50 AM

Nah, youre human youre made out of flesh and bone not rock!so is perfectly normal.



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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 17th 2011, 04:45 AM

I think it's a strong curiosty of what sex feels like and just normal young hormones running through you. We all get aroused and have fantasies and curiosity about sex, virgin or not. Even when I was a virgin I had erotic fantasies and dreams about it and always wondered, and deep down kind of wanted to but didn't because I wanted to wait for the right moment.
Trust me on this, don't have sex until you're absolutely entirely sure you want to give it to that person and they're the right one.
   
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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 17th 2011, 06:17 AM

I'm like this too and I'm still a virgin, so it is completely normal. Just don't rush into anything until you are sure about it.






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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 17th 2011, 12:11 PM

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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 17th 2011, 11:17 PM

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Lately i really dont know what it is but i wanted to have sex like so badly
(ima virgin) like ive never done anything really sexuall in that manner
(IM NOT A LONER) but like is this normal to wanna do it so badly like does this happen to every one or do i have some type of SUPER HORMONES???
i'm virgin too and have the same urges, so I would say it is normal.



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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 18th 2011, 03:05 AM

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I think it's a strong curiosty of what sex feels like and just normal young hormones running through you. We all get aroused and have fantasies and curiosity about sex, virgin or not. Even when I was a virgin I had erotic fantasies and dreams about it and always wondered, and deep down kind of wanted to but didn't because I wanted to wait for the right moment.
Trust me on this, don't have sex until you're absolutely entirely sure you want to give it to that person and they're the right one.
I agree with this. Don't have sex unless your READY to have sex emotionally and can handle the consequences just because you want to know what it feels like. Sex will still be there tomorrow, next week, next year, in 2057. You're young you have time so don't rush it. That being said however if you ARE ready be sure you are protect ie condoms, and/or birth control. Some forms of birth control are effective but only condoms and abstinence protect against STD's or STI's. It is perfectly normal to want to have sex ALL the time, be curious and fantasize about it, many people do. It's normal I to think about sex all the time.


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one word... yes. trust me ive been going through it to where all i want is sex (virgin) its been this way 4 years and i dont think it will go away until it happens but i am going to wait if you choose not to that is ur decision just make sure you love that person because it is a special thing
   
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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 18th 2011, 12:38 PM

You are perfectly normal! Masturbate yourself in bed each night, & each morning before you get up! That way, you won't be needing sex so urgently through the day.
   
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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 20th 2011, 02:05 AM

Yes, it's completely normal.


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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 20th 2011, 11:32 PM

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Girls masturbates like 2 times a month...
   
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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 21st 2011, 07:30 PM

Trust me, you're normal. Pretty much most people go through a stage of wanting sex really badly. Some never even grow out of it, so there you go.


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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 21st 2011, 11:34 PM

omg im exactly the same :P
I'm a virgin too so i just masturbate a lot to try and stop the cravings but i find that once i orgasm i want to do it again and again so that doesn't work too well :P
I'm fifteen so i have many more years of this So yeah, i think it's all down to hormones and it's nothing to be ashamed about; ALTHOUGH! I did used to feel like i must be really desperate for sex or something so that used to put me down but it is just purely hormones xx


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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 21st 2011, 11:35 PM

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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 22nd 2011, 09:10 PM

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And that is SO WRONG! I masturbate daily! And sometimes a couple times a day
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Re: Is it Normal To want SEX so BADLY! - August 23rd 2011, 12:33 AM

Hey Lilly,

I feel as though you’re question has been answered. Seeing little change in posted content I’m going to close this thread. If you have another question feel free to create a new thread.

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