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Boys who Drink ALOT = just want sex? - September 2nd 2011, 12:09 AM

i know im stereotyping hugely here so please dont hate me or hate on me on here. but i like this boy and apparently according to other people, he drinks alot at parties and is really into parties.

he seems nice and he's cute and smart and he does have a job. hes not a total loser.

yet i mean, in my expereicne the cute, hot boys at parties want girls who give it up right?

again please dont hate. nothing wrong with hookups ....

please answer me. im stressssssan.
   
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Re: Boys who Drink ALOT = just want sex? - September 2nd 2011, 12:19 AM

I would have to say I don't quite see the connection. Just because a boy drinks and goes to parties does not mean that he just wants sex (more than any other male).

Think about this, when you asked other people, they said he was a drinker and a partier, not a man-whore, "player", or that he was only looking for hookups.
   
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Re: Boys who Drink ALOT = just want sex? - September 2nd 2011, 12:31 AM

Wow, Maeve, thank you so much for your reply. You really hit home with your post to me! Anyone else have thoughts from their experiences at parties and with boys who drink alot?
   
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Re: Boys who Drink ALOT = just want sex? - September 2nd 2011, 01:16 AM

I agree with Maeve. Just because he parties and drinks doesn't mean he's looking for sex. Both me AND my boyfriend drink and party a lot (because we are of age to do so), but when we go to parties, we aren't looking for hook ups. It wasn't like that before we were together either.

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Re: Boys who Drink ALOT = just want sex? - September 2nd 2011, 03:53 AM

As a rule of thumb, never meet a guy at a drinking party. Stereotypes have occurred for a reason, and that's because they've happened so often that women are lead to believe that it's true for all men at drinking parties. I would say that you're more likely to fall for a guy at a drinking party who is more interested in "living it up" than "settling down." At this point, it's all a risk and you probably won't find out the other guy's intentions on the relationship till later on; some guys will hide their true intentions by getting into a relationship with you and anticipating to have sex. It's risky business. Tread with caution.



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Re: Boys who Drink ALOT = just want sex? - September 2nd 2011, 07:20 AM

I consider myself a romantic type of guy, and I'm well educated. I drink a lot at parties too, it is just a way to have fun.


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Re: Boys who Drink ALOT = just want sex? - September 2nd 2011, 09:30 AM

I don't drink, never have, never care to, most guys who get trashed in High school are more of the seedier types anyway.


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Re: Boys who Drink ALOT = just want sex? - September 2nd 2011, 09:40 AM

I met my ex at a party. He drank a lot, still does. Much as we did have a sexual reltionship, that wasn't all he was interested in. I don't think there's any link there at all ...


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Re: Boys who Drink ALOT = just want sex? - September 2nd 2011, 11:43 PM

Just because he parties & drinks doesn't mean he likes to sleep around. Basically my boyfriend was like this when we met & he's an amazing guy who would never take advantage of a drunk girl.

I do think that if you decide to date (which this may be too far in advance to think about but it's something to keep in mind) is will he be willing to cut down on the partying for you? I was cool with who my boyfriend was before I was in the picture, but he now doesn't go to parties without me. It's just a safety thing. I've had to drive him home from parties before & I don't want him to be put in a situation where he doesn't have a ride.
   
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Re: Boys who Drink ALOT = just want sex? - September 8th 2011, 03:44 AM

I love drinking A LOT, however i dont just look to hook up with people, in my case its unnconected, i know peoplewho dont drink and are players, the drinking doesnt affect a persons morals as much as some people think
   
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