bad situation

hollyberry · **bad situation -** October 23rd 2011, 08:24 PM

Im so embarassed to write this because im ashamed at myself its so out of character for me but i need advice.
Basically i did something really stupid. I got really drunk out at a club and i was getting with this guy and he kept buying me drinks and kept saying your coming back to mine and I was like no im not like that, cause im really not i so rarely even kiss guys while im out. I was so smashed. then we went outside and to this like park and he kept asking me to have sex with him and i kept saying no. because i didnt want to and he didnt have a condom. I kept saying no but he kept on at me and in the end I went along with it for a bit, but then i stopped it and left. He didnt physically force me or anything I went along with it.
now its the next day and i feel so fucking stupid i literally cant believe i did that im so ashamed. I know he took advantage but i went along with it and now i just feel really down and i dont know what to do. my friend keeps asking me whats wrong but I cant tell her because im so ashamed.
does anyone have any advice cause its really getting me down. thanks.

Sythan · **Re: bad situation -** October 23rd 2011, 08:44 PM

You were drunk, you can't legally consent to sex while you're drunk. He took advantage of the situation at hand, it wasn't your fault. Talk to your friend, let her know what happened. You don't have anything to be ashamed about, you didn't have control of the situation.

Angel · **Re: bad situation -** October 23rd 2011, 08:45 PM

Mistakes happen, and you are not immune to them. I'm sorry this has happened to you. Your friend is concerned about you. If this is a friend that you trust, there is no reason to feel ashamed around friends. I'm quite certain she just wants to know so she can help out.

Since he did not have a condom, you may want to get yourself to your gynecologist or to a clinic to check for STDs. Depending on how long ago this incident occurred, you may also benefit from taking emergency contraception.

Hope this helps. x

hollyberry · **Re: bad situation -** October 23rd 2011, 09:02 PM

thanks, yeah i took the morning after pill today. i dont know why i feel so bad about this, i just feel like its my fault.

Come get some · **Re: bad situation -** October 24th 2011, 11:01 PM

It's because a one night stand is a win for a guy.

Guile · **Re: bad situation -** October 24th 2011, 11:25 PM

Some other advice, don't go get smashed, there's half your problem...

hollyberry · **Re: bad situation -** October 25th 2011, 01:51 PM

I am fully aware I shouldn't have got that drunk. I don't usually it just all caught up with me at once. thanks for the helpful advice, not.

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hollyberry Offline Member Welcome me, I'm new! * Age: 19 Posts: 7 Join Date: September 25th 2011	Re: bad situation - October 23rd 2011, 09:02 PM thanks, yeah i took the morning after pill today. i dont know why i feel so bad about this, i just feel like its my fault.

Come get some Offline Member Welcome me, I'm new! * Age: 18 Gender: Male Posts: 41 Join Date: June 24th 2011	Re: bad situation - October 24th 2011, 11:01 PM It's because a one night stand is a win for a guy.

Guile Offline High Troll Lord of Equestria I've been here a while ******** Name: Guile Gender: Male Location: United States Posts: 1,337 Join Date: January 24th 2010	Re: bad situation - October 24th 2011, 11:25 PM Some other advice, don't go get smashed, there's half your problem... Guile, he'll rustle your jimmies... Politicians and diapers should both be changed often, and for the same reason.... Guile

hollyberry Offline Member Welcome me, I'm new! * Age: 19 Posts: 7 Join Date: September 25th 2011	Re: bad situation - October 25th 2011, 01:51 PM I am fully aware I shouldn't have got that drunk. I don't usually it just all caught up with me at once. thanks for the helpful advice, not.

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