Female Advice Preferred: Girl Problems

Bball22 · **Girl Problems -** November 6th 2011, 06:47 PM

Hi So ive been after this girl for a while and we really like eachother but shes never kissed anyone and is not a prude at all but is like kinda weird in that she freaks out when she starts getting close to someone. Anyway we were at a party together and we were gonna hook up but then she like backed out. I fell like i have to break her out of her shell but I have no idea how to do it. Help please oh and she also is really into like cute romantic stuff which I suck at.

Maloo · **Re: Girl Problems -** November 6th 2011, 06:51 PM

Don't pressure her into doing anything. She'll do things when she's ready.

RabbitOfNegativeEuphoria · **Re: Girl Problems -** November 6th 2011, 06:57 PM

Don't rush anything, just be friends for a while, let her get to know you and such, talk a lot, go places together as friends, then when she seems comfortable you can maybe say you like her and go on a date maybe or go to eachothers house..... and if she wants to run away, give her some space and make it clear to her that you can back off if she wants you too for a bit

Bball22 · **Re: Girl Problems -** November 6th 2011, 06:58 PM

I know but her best friend has been like telling me to do something so i dont know what
to do.

apple_123 · **Re: Girl Problems -** November 6th 2011, 07:20 PM

Force will only make her back out. If she see's how bad you want it, it can make her nervous. Let her know you like her regardless and she makes you happy with out that stuff, but when she's ready, you care too

strength_to_surrive_si · **Re: Girl Problems -** November 6th 2011, 07:37 PM

just give her time. she will come out on own

Aletheia* · **Re: Girl Problems -** November 6th 2011, 08:10 PM

As others said, don't force her. She'll be ready on her own time.

SairuhhMaye · **Re: Girl Problems -** November 7th 2011, 02:17 AM

She's obviously uncomfortable, and she will be comfortable on her own terms. You can't force a girl to be comfortable. Don't rush into anything. Maybe try to talk to her, have really in depth conversations and she may open up to you. You should really get to know her completely.

Jaguar · **Re: Girl Problems -** November 7th 2011, 04:42 AM

Learn to be romantic. Work at it. Get good at it. It's worth it.

Accept her signals when to stop or not go any further. When she trusts you she'll be ready to go as far as you want.

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Maloo Offline Maloooooo I can't get enough ********* Name: Lissa Age: 20 Gender: Female Location: The US Posts: 2,348 Join Date: January 12th 2010	Re: Girl Problems - November 6th 2011, 06:51 PM Don't pressure her into doing anything. She'll do things when she's ready. I've found the one who completes me. This love is like nothing I've ever felt before. <3

Bball22 Offline Member Welcome me, I'm new! * Age: 16 Posts: 4 Join Date: November 6th 2011	Re: Girl Problems - November 6th 2011, 06:58 PM I know but her best friend has been like telling me to do something so i dont know what to do.

apple_123 Offline Member Not a n00b ** Name: Julie! Gender: Female Location: New York Posts: 62 Join Date: November 6th 2011	Re: Girl Problems - November 6th 2011, 07:20 PM Force will only make her back out. If she see's how bad you want it, it can make her nervous. Let her know you like her regardless and she makes you happy with out that stuff, but when she's ready, you care too

strength_to_surrive_si Offline loving my fiance Not a n00b ** Name: Angela Age: 18 Gender: Female Location: Minnestoa Posts: 56 Join Date: January 29th 2010	Re: Girl Problems - November 6th 2011, 07:37 PM just give her time. she will come out on own Angela and Will 4ever

Aletheia* Offline Proud Military Girlfriend Jeez, get a life! *********** Name: Shannon Age: 21 Gender: Female Location: IRAW! Posts: 5,131 Join Date: March 31st 2010	Re: Girl Problems - November 6th 2011, 08:10 PM As others said, don't force her. She'll be ready on her own time. I may wear the glass slippers; But my hero wears combat boots <3 I love you, Lieutenant HelpLink Mentor 6/13/2011 Pregnancy & Childcare Moderator 11/26/2011 Fashion & Style Moderator 12/28/2011 Social Groups Moderator 12/28/2011

SairuhhMaye Offline Member Welcome me, I'm new! * Name: Sairruh Maye Age: 18 Gender: Female Location: East Bay, California Posts: 26 Join Date: November 2nd 2011	Re: Girl Problems - November 7th 2011, 02:17 AM She's obviously uncomfortable, and she will be comfortable on her own terms. You can't force a girl to be comfortable. Don't rush into anything. Maybe try to talk to her, have really in depth conversations and she may open up to you. You should really get to know her completely. Twitter
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Jaguar Offline Member I've been here a while ******** Name: Stephen Davis Age: 31 Gender: Male Location: Flatland Posts: 1,498 Join Date: January 6th 2009	Re: Girl Problems - November 7th 2011, 04:42 AM Learn to be romantic. Work at it. Get good at it. It's worth it. Accept her signals when to stop or not go any further. When she trusts you she'll be ready to go as far as you want. What just happened?
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