Weird fantasy?!?

[Delicate Angel Wings]

(Warning TMI)

I keep having this reoccurring fantasy that some guy is raping me. The fantasy is creepy but at the same time I enjoy it. Is this normal? I've never heard of anyone having a fantasy like this and I feel like some weird sadistic freak.

[Angel]

It's not as weird as you think. Some people get involved in ravishment play in which they act out these scenes. It's just another outlet for dominance play in my eyes, not odd at all. The difference between ravishment and rape is that one is entirely consensual and often a lot of planning goes into it in advance.

Whatever you choose to get involved in, make sure you're playing safe. Make your boundaries be known and clear and have a safe word to use in case things get out of hand.

[Acheron]

Actually, rape fantasies are really common among girls. They're just not often talked about, for reasons that are probably obvious. And luckily for you, there are guys out there that will help you experiment within pre-negotiated boundaries. It's a fairly common kind of dominance play, so you can play out your rape fantasy consensually and without all the trauma of an actual rape.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

It's normal. A lot of girls fantasize of being dominated in bed.

[Delicate Angel Wings]

Oh wow. That makes sense......I thought I was a weirdo.

[MacGuffin]

Nope, you aren't weird. And it doesn't mean you want to be raped. It means you just crave a partner to take a dominant role in bed. Kind of a surrendering yourself to the experience kind of thing.

[Aletheia*]

Not uncommon. I also have this same fantasy. I've asked my boyfriend to role play it out with me, and we tried once, but he felt bad for doing it so we ultimately ended that fantasy of mine. It's definitely not uncommon for girls to have this specific fantasy. It also doesn't mean you crave to be raped. You just want a partner who has a more dominant role, not a submissive one.

[AmazonQueen]

It's quite common, as everyone has said a lot of girls fantasize about this. I do, I have a few friends who do. So don't worry your not alone. You're not weird because you want to be raped. It just means you crave a dominant partner. As others have also said. But if you do find a guy who is willing to act this out with you set boundaries first and a safe word isn't a bad idea either. So if something unexpected comes up in the moment he will know the difference between you pretending to resist and you ACTUALLY resisting.

[Delicate Angel Wings]

Thanks EVERYone!!

[Chris.]

Yes, I personally think it is normal for both males and females.

Some have the dreams and pictures or scenarios of them being raped due to it happening in the past; but also, on the other hand some people have those same scenarios, pictures, and dreams because it is attractive and makes them horny in some way (Some peoples fanicy). Everyone has a Fanicy, this just seems to be yours.

Best wishes,
Chris

[victoriabankson]

i agree with everyone and yeah ur not alone i also have this fantasy

[Revolution]

I could go back a few pages and show you I posted this exact same thread. I have it too. Don't worry love, it's perfectly normal!

[Delicate Angel Wings]

thank you guys so much.

[Guardian_Angel]

Haha, in fact this particular fantasy is probably one of the most common fantasies girls have, it plays on power play dynamics and loss of control (within a controlled setting) and a lot to do with trust as well. You are most definitely not a freak though, I wouldnt be suprised if the majority of girls shared your desire.

[Sythan]

They're extremely common. Nothing to worry about :P

[thinkingandage]

Originally Posted by Sincerely Yours

It's normal. A lot of girls fantasize of being dominated in bed.

Yup,that's normal!!